tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65078004242075319302023-09-28T08:39:54.617-07:00Backseat DriverKatiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.comBlogger91125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-46624786459341097902013-03-08T05:55:00.003-08:002013-03-08T06:15:54.527-08:00Why Are We Not Seeing Greater Impact In This Movement? We've been living Simple, Organic, Missional life in Christ for awhile now, and frankly there is no other choice for my husband and I. We are completely convinced this is the way Jesus lived, and that's good enough for us. We've raised our three children to young adults in this paradigm, and we've seen the fruit of it in their lives, and those who have joined to us along the way in this journey. I encourage, coach, and mentor all those I can in this paradigm because I am committed to it. God showed us the potential of the Simple, Organic, Missional paradigm to exhibit His Presence, Power, Purpose and Love to the world through it.<br />
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Before I knew anything about S/O/M, I was committed to missions and outreach to those who don't know Christ, because I wanted others to have what I have in Jesus. It's that simple. To me, it all boils down to the fact that God sent his Son, so that we might have fellowship with Them, and so He sends us for the same purpose. It just isn't anymore complicated than that.<br />
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<i> So if this is true, why have we seen such little impact of a movement that has all the elements of going viral because in principle, all the participants are sent on mission?</i><br />
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Because the majority of those who are living Simple and Organic paradigms are not living Missionally. Sadly, it's just a "buzz" word for most, the latest "cool" thing to talk about, but with very little reality or practice in their lives.<br />
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Let's get to it, and those who have ears to hear, let him/her hear.<br />
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First of all, let's look at what we're doing pretty well; the First Leg - The Fellowship Leg of The Table vision, has some good stuff happening. Let's look at some of it: <br />
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<li>We have various styles and types of Simple and Organic church.</li>
<li> The essence of church as a family is happening. </li>
<li>We are doing a much better job at all of us reading, studying and understanding The Word.</li>
<li> People are exploring, practicing and growing in their gifts with one another.</li>
<li>We are getting better at understanding that leadership is more like a mother and father, and less like a CEO.</li>
<li>We are enjoying playing, eating, and learning together, making our fellowship experience more like normal life and it's ebbs and flows.</li>
<li>We are learning that Christian life and fellowship is not what we "do" but who we "are".</li>
<li>We are understanding that there is no "secular" vs "sacred" - but we serve God holistically in all areas of our life.</li>
<li>We are understanding there is no laity or clergy, but all of us are called to listen, obey, serve and minister.</li>
<li>We are finally learning that the 5-fold gifts of Apostle, Prophet, Pastor, Teacher, Evangelist are for the equipping of the saints for the real ministry, and not for platforms of notoriety, fame, power and prestige.</li>
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Okay! That's worth celebrating and thanking God for! In the advertising slogan of a long ago cigarette commercial; "you've come along way baby!" But, and you knew a but was coming, we have not come far enough. It is not enough to get better at having Christian fellowship - as good as that is! We have to live missionally to really BE like Jesus.<br />
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The truth and reality is that not many of us are truly reaching out to those who don't know Jesus, and living missionally. Why not? I've heard such explanations like; we need more intercession, it's not God's timing yet, we need more S/O churches to mother/father all the New Believers that will result, we are not called to mission (because that is "works") but rather to Jesus alone, we need persecution to force us, we live in a different culture, we're too busy to invest the time and commitment it takes. Heard or said any of them yourself? Maybe none, some or all of these are true, and I've even said a few myself trying to understand why we are not reaching out in mission. However, in seeing that the life and vibrancy of the First Leg of The Table vision stemmed from their being connected and invested in the Second Leg of The Table which was made up of those who didn't know Christ, and seeing how the church in the Book of Acts grew, and in places like India, China and Africa is growing today - I don't think those reasons hold much merit. I think the truth is we are afraid, discouraged with previous attempts, too busy, too self focused, lazy, expect others to do it, and find excuses for our lack of mission and make it sound spiritual so we can let ourselves off the hook.<br />
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Am I being too harsh? I'm hoping to exhort you to fulfill the whole purposes of God in your life to use you to bring the light, the fragrance, the saltiness of Jesus to those He has destined you to reach.<br />
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When I teach about S/O/M church I do the following visual: I have a few from the group come and stand in a circle, holding hands. A good and familiar picture of what we do pretty well in our Christian fellowship. We are together, supporting one another, linked and joined in community. All good. Yet we are only looking at, and are focused on each other as we face inward. No wonder our groups become ingrown, unhealthy, and full of the elements of the flesh we are warned about in Scripture. <br />
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Now, flip everyone around, so that each is facing outward. Still holding hands in support, linked and joined together, covering each others' backside. But the difference is that the focus is outward. Each person is gazing outward from the group at a slightly different angle than those on either side, into a unique and specific journey of mission that the Lord has destined EACH of us to walk in. The Word says, "For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." (Ephesians 2:10). <br />
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<i>Living missionally means we are continually sowing Christ into the lives of people all around us</i>.<br />
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In <i>Greenhouse </i>training we learn about the four different types of soils that Jesus teaches us about in Matthew 13. Of the four identified soils, only one of those soils actually produces lasting fruit and real salvation. The problem for us is that we cannot judge by looking at it, which one is the fruitful soil. Only Jesus and the Father know the soil of a man's heart. We are called to
sow, and sow a lot, leaving the results up to God. Many times I've sown in soil I
judged to be "the good and receptive soil" only to have that person end
up just the opposite. And I also have resisted sowing in some soil I judged to
be too hard, rocky and unreceptive, only to have it produce
incredible fruits of salvation in the person! I simply cannot, and neither
can you, be accurate in soil evaluations. Therefore, we have to sow a
lot and trust God to do His work, and only His work, in creating a
disciple out of the soil of their heart. I firmly believe that as we are obedient to this, and growing in faithfulness, that we will become more and more like Jesus, who "only did that which He saw the Father do" (John 5:19) Then we will be incredibly effective in our sowing, because we've learned to be great at listening and responding to the Father's voice in obedience.<br />
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What if you asked Jesus to show you three people this week that you could invest in that are not Christians? Can you commit to living a week of intentional missionality, and see what God might do through you?<br />
Pretend you are just like Jesus, waking up in the morning and turning to The Father and asking; "who do You want me to reach out to today Father? Who are you working in that I will come in contact with? Let me join you Father, in Your work to reach and save those who are lost, and those sheep without a shepherd."<br />
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Then do what Jesus did. Listen and obey, and see what God will do through you.<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-31068841238178586552013-03-06T16:33:00.000-08:002013-03-06T16:39:42.641-08:00Third Post of "I'm Hungry" and The Table VisionIt had been there all along, silently, quietly and slowly forming in obscurity all around me. A little here, a little there, but far from the magnitude and impact of what I saw in The Table vision, and what had excited me to my core! The Table vision had shown me what was possible, and what was in the heart of God - and I was ruined for anything less.<br />
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The season of the "D's" was not spent in just praying, waiting and
idleness. In fact, I was seeing God do incredible things on mission and ministry trips in different countries other than the United States during these years. <i>This caused me to beg God to do what I saw Him do in other countries, here at home in my own relationships, neighborhood, city, region and country!</i><br />
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I've always believed that God prefers to direct our steps as we keep walking, over lighting a match to our butt to get us moving. So even while walking through desert seasons, and seeing very little of The Table vision manifest, I was starting, facilitating, and participating in many various types of Simple/Organic Churches during this time and through these years. We saw a lot of fruit from these groups. No two were ever the same - the make up the participants, the duration of the group, the specific "issue" we might be gathering around, how we gathered, etc. was varied. Some gatherings were scheduled, and others were fluid (meaning they happened without scheduling). Some met for a year or more, and others a few months, and still others were so fluid that they were far more relational based and they were lived in spontaneity. They were a small example of the First Leg of The Table. However, an example I could tangibly see, and I was encouraged.<br />
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One Simple Church that Tom and I have fond memories of was predominately made up of those with mental health disorders. (I would venture to say that this type of church planting does not get on the list of current church planting books and seminars.) <i>This Simple Church formed naturally as we reached out to a guy we knew who struggled with his mental health, and then he brought others, and so on, and so forth. </i>This group had some Christians in it, and others who became Christians through the fellowship and healing prayer of group members as they ministered to one another in Christ. Again, it was only a small glimpse of The First and Second Leg of The Table, but it was there. <br />
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I constantly wondered: were there <i>others out there</i> who were also living disconnected from the traditional once or twice a week Christian experience, and programed life of fellowship and ministry? Were their others who like us, who were living and experiencing fellowship and mission with others without a program facilitating it to both Christians and non Christians?<br />
Those people that had a lifestyle that resembled more than anything else, an unknown adventure of discovery of what church really was, coupled with the natural expression of the Great Commission as we lived our lives WITH, not separate from, those who don't yet know Christ? Where were they? How could I find them?<br />
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Towards the end of my "D" season, I began to hear of others meeting in Simple Churches. Although they were hard to find, just knowing about their existence was encouraging. Most were, "under the radar", in the unobtrusive and quiet manner of Simple Church. I was spending quite a bit of my time explaining Simple, Organic, Missional life and fellowship to people, and I saw there was increasingly more and more interest in it. It seemed daily that God was crossing my path with others who were "looking for more" in their relationship with God and others. God was drawing people into this paradigm.<br />
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I began to pray about how to bring connections. How to connect the people that I was meeting, and still others I knew must be out there, that I had no knowledge about- but God did. I didn't know how I could possibly identify, reach and pull people together - but I was excited about trying if God was going to do all the real work! I had heard Neil Cole at a House2House conference in 2006, teach a workshop called <i>Greenhouse.</i> Neil spoke the things that had been in my heart and mouth for many years, but he spoke them <i>WAY BETTER !</i> I contacted Paul Kaak, Neil's co-author of <i>Greenhouse</i> and CMA (Church Multiplication Associates), to share my story and ask to sponsor a <i>Greenhouse</i> for my region. That was the first of 5 <i>Greenhouses</i> (GH1 & GH2's) that brought many people together from all over the region and country (and even from Australia for a GH!). I also developed a conference called <i>Living The Mission</i>, and helped promote and involve people in a <i>House2House</i> regional conference. These gatherings brought people together who were in different "streams" of Christianity, who lived in different areas, who had no knowledge or connection with one another, but shared an interest in Simple, Organic, Missional paradigms. They were lay people, paid ministry people, new in Christ or mature in Christ, male, female, young and old. They shared their stories, encouraged one another, learned from one another, formed connections, built relational networks, formed new Simple Church expressions or outreaches, or went back to traditional church with new zeal and organic life in Christ principles. The fruit of these gatherings (and this is just a small piece of what the Third Leg represented) was evident. I began to see, year after year, more of The Table vision form, especially the First and Third Leg, although there is a long way to go in the Third Leg of The Table vision of the Church coming together. This is just a short synopsis for a blog post.<br />
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Some of you wonder if there are others in your area or region who are living Simple, Organic, Missional life. Many of you wonder how to connect with those in your region. Hosting city/regional gatherings of some sort, is <i>one way </i>for you to see God bring people together that you would never had known or had access to. Greenhouse, Momentum (House2House's regional conferences) or other venues like these are great ways to see God bring connections and relational strength to the Simple, Organic, Missional movement in your area. Contact <a href="http://www.cmaresources.org/">www.cmaresources.org</a> for information on sponsoring a Greenhouse, or contact Ken Eastburn at <a href="http://www.house2house.com/">www.house2house.com</a> for information about a Momentum conference if your interested.<br />
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So what's up with the Second Leg of The Table vision?<br />
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Sadly, not much....let's talk........Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-10978473425671478522013-03-01T06:00:00.000-08:002013-03-01T06:04:46.860-08:00The Second Leg - I'm Hungry continued....Yesterday I started to share with you a vision I had about a table and the legs that supported it. If you haven't read this previous blog post, I suggest that you read that before you start this one.<br />
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After the formation of the First Leg of The Table, the Second Leg began to take shape before me. This new leg forming before me was very different from the small fellowships of Christian koinonia that made up the First Leg of The Table. This table leg was the "missional" leg. I saw that the umbilical cords from those groups in the First Leg, reached over and connected them to communities and people from their lives who didn't yet know Christ. Individuals and communities that First Leg people had connections with through work, their neighborhoods, interests, family members, previous lifestyles, and other "oikos" from which they came from or presently lived in. I saw it as The Mission Leg of The Table, because it was through these relationships and connections that the First Leg fellowships grew, and how new fellowship groups were formed. First Leg fellowships didn't form and grow from each other, or through the shuffling of people around from group to group, but rather through the addition of new believers!<br />
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Then The Third Leg began to form. I saw this leg represent the corporate gathering of the many fellowship groups from the First Leg who gathered together for such things as regional trainings, conferences, corporate worship, teaching, local and international mission projects, and various community outreaches. Those things where the Body of Christ of a region came together in larger community and in corporate unity type of events. Thus, the Community Leg of The Table.<br />
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Then I saw the Fourth Leg of The Table empty and without anything visible, and asked the Lord, "what about that leg?" and He said, "that's not for you to know at this time."<br />
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End of <i>The Table</i> vision.<br />
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I was stunned. I was amazed. I was enthralled with what I had just saw. I saw true shepherding, real discipleship, natural evangelism, training and equipping, the "one anothers" of scripture in true community and authentic fellowship, the participation of each member of the Body, and so much more in this vision. Seeing that everything we needed spiritually, physically, emotionally for such Kingdom life, had been bountifully provided for us on the top of the banquet table, boosted my faith to new levels. I was ready! Bring it on Lord! This was going to be great!<br />
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I prayed and prayed and prayed. But nothing. I told people about the Table Vision, and received back blank stares or raised eyebrows. I drew picture after picture of it on napkins, scrap papers and anything else I could find to illustrate it. Once in a while I got a, "oh, cool!" My initial excitement began to wane. Years went by. I waited, watched, and prayed, and waited some more.<br />
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But nothing happened. Only the "D's" - deserts, droughts, discouragement, disillusionment, defeat, dejection, despair, depression, death. For years I prayed and looked for the manifestation of this vision. It had impacted me so powerfully, and I was aching for it to become something that I could be a part of, or at least witness in my lifetime. But nothing. What had started out to be an incredible blessing of insight and encouragement, became to me like a curse. I began to beg God to take it from my memory if He was not going to allow me to be a part of it, or at least see it come to pass. I prayed and prayed for it to be forgotten and lost to me. But it didn't go away. It stood before me daily like a great neon sign advertising something I could not have. <br />
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Then the long season of the "D's" came to an end. I began to see the Table Vision form around me.<br />
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More in the next post........<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-15817043325241461802013-02-28T07:19:00.004-08:002013-02-28T07:27:14.741-08:00I'm HungryIt was about 20 years ago when unexpectedly the Lord placed a clear picture in front of my eyes. Some would call it a vision - I called it a blessing and curse. Here's the vision, and here's why.<br />
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Before me I saw a large banquet table that was full of every kind of food and drink imaginable. It was overflowing with more than I saw the table could hold, and yet it did. Immediately, I knew that what I saw was the provision of the Lord to His People. It was symbolic all that we needed for life and godliness, power, provision, grace, wisdom, strength - you need it, it was there. I was overwhelmed with the knowledge that all that provision was there waiting for us to take. Faith welled up inside of me as I saw the magnitude of this provision for us.<br />
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Then, I saw the First Leg of The Table form before me. I saw that what made up this leg was various and diverse types of fellowship gatherings. They were of different sizes, although none were very large, and they were each quite unique from one another. Some were made up of young mothers, others of men and women at work places, some were couples of various ages, some were those seeking freedom and healing from issues that plague humans, others were affinity type groups of some sort or another, there was an incredible diversity of them. Although all the groups were very different from one another, they did all have in common that they read and studied the Word of God together, they cared and ministered to one another - using the gifts God gives - growing in them through practice and application, and they were maturing. These groups were full of life. Pulsating life, in fact! As I marveled at the vibrancy of these groups, I wondered how they grew and how the new groups formed on this table leg. As soon as I did, I saw umbilical cords from these groups grow backwards into the now forming Second Leg of The Table.Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-46167370889347437222012-11-09T09:29:00.002-08:002012-11-09T09:29:32.951-08:00Are You Headless And Don't Even Know It?<div class="post-title entry-title" itemprop="name">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> Lately, I've been struggling with the decision of whether or not to continue writing Backseat Driver. I'm really seeking to know the direction of the Lord in this. I'm wondering if it's really valuable and producing Kingdom fruit, or if its time to move on with other things. I hate to think I'm just contributing more pablum to our obsession with teaching, information, endless opinions, "expert" dissemination and constant verbal noise. Maybe I'm just tired, and in pessimistic mood, but I find myself in reading blogs, twitter, and Facebook/Google posts, the words of Solomon in Ecclesiastes when he says, "Vanity of vanities, all is vanity". </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I'd like<i> "</i>Backseat Driver" to be what Solomon describes when he says, "<i>The Preacher sought to find delightful words and to write truth correctly. The words of wise men are like goads, and masters of these collections are like well-driven nails; they are given by the one Shepherd</i>", (Chapter 12:10-11). However I'm worried that I may be falling into his warning in the next verse along with many others when he continues with, " <i>But beyond this, my son, be warned; the writing of many books is endless, and excessive devotion to books (blogs, twitter) is wearying to the body. The conclusion, when all has been heard, is fear God and keep His commandments, because this applies to every person". </i>Ecclesiastes 12:12-13.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">So, going back to my very first blog post from February 2009, which I re posted here - I'm taking a good look in the mirror and wondering if I'm walking around Headless, or connected firmly to the Head. </span></span></div>
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Last night I had a disturbing dream where everyone was walking around
without a head attached to their body. Even stranger, was that it
didn't seem to be problem or an issue. I watched them function in all
the ways we do naturally, going here and there, living their life. I
was confused because I couldn't understand how they were doing so
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Have
you ever been driving the car for a period of time, lost in thought,
and suddenly realized that you had covered many miles, switched lanes,
maneuvered through traffic and not had a consciousness of what just
happened? There was a disconnect from the "head" but you functioned
just fine on "auto pilot".</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">In Colossians
2, the theme is learning how to walk out our being complete in Christ.
In verse 19 it states; " not holding fast to the head, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">from whom</span> the entire body being supplied and held together by the joints and ligaments, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">grows with a growth which is from God.</span>" </span></span><div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">In Ephesians 4:15 it say; "but speaking the truth in love, we are to <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">grow up in all aspects into Him, who is the head, even Christ."</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">How much of our daily lives to we live "without the Head", and we don't even notice it? When we go on "auto pilot" ?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I know I desire to grow with a <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">growth which is from Christ</span>,
and I believe you do also. To remain connected to Him so that our
lives are a living, fruitful and growing reflection of His Will and
direction. No more auto pilot or headless meandering! Let's stay
connected to our Head!</span></span></div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-5470676864402826822012-10-03T14:46:00.000-07:002012-10-03T15:01:40.894-07:00The Last of the Questions!!<h4>
<u><span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>Q: How do you handle bad doctrine and those who bring weird ideas?</i></b></span></u></h4>
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<span style="font-size: small;"> For any disciple new or old in their relationship with Christ, </span><span style="font-size: small;"> it is necessary and paramount to our maturing process </span><span style="font-size: small;">to read and know the Word of God and the Word Himself as our teacher. Not only reading, but also in the practice of what we read for it to become a part of us. Otherwise, it is quickly forgotten and it never takes root within us to bear fruit. There are no shortcuts to maturity - it takes time and commitment. It means you listen and obey your way to maturity and discernment. Hebrews 5:14 says, "<i>But solid food is for the mature, <b>who because of practice have their senses trained to discern good and evil"</b></i>. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Maturity means your not easily misled. Unfortunately, we have people misled by false teaching because they don't mature and are vulnerable to any charismatic and forceful teacher. It will always be so. The Apostle Paul dealt with false teachers and teachings, and those who misled others and comments a lot on the subject in his letters. Jesus said we will have tares grow up alongside the wheat. We should expect it, and train ourselves to discern wisely. We should also expect to be misled if we are not reading and practicing the Word ourselves.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">When our children were very young, we encouraged them to read the Bible and ask God to teach them what it means. Of course we engaged with them in the process, but we did not substitute a quick answer for them, and required them to seek out God and His Word for themselves. They developed a lifestyle of asking, listening and obeying. That is the essence of any disciple - to know Jesus intimately and do what He says. We do that with those we disciple also - point them to Jesus. This doesn't mean they couldn't, or didn't come to us with questions or for counsel, it just meant that God was sought FIRST and the Holy Spirit was trusted and expected to do what He says He does -which is teaching, guiding and conforming us to Christ. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">With the MSF motorcycle rider training program we use to teach the basic skills of riding, most of those who take the class have no prior knowledge or skill about motorcycling at all. At the completion of 10 hours of "on the motorcycle" training, most are doing good quick stops, skilled cornering, tight U-turns and more. If we can do that with a good training program in two days in our flesh, how much MORE can the Holy Spirit do if we trust Him to train us in The Word - the very thing He is wanting to do?!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> Everyone needs to read the Word of God. We discern error when we know the real thing because we have familiarity and personal interaction with it regularly. If we only know regurgitated and editorial interpretations of The Word, we will be easily mislead. Weird and false doctrine usually comes through the teaching of one person in the group, and where the group doesn't know it's wrong because they are ignorant. When we give the responsibility to know the Word to someone else because it's easier for us that way, we open ourselves up to being mislead. When the group has matured through knowing the Word themselves, they can easily recognize and deal with error.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Because nothing really changed, it only shrunk. We call it the "honey, I shrunk the church" syndrome. It's as if by leaving a building and then substituting the meeting place with a house, a city park, or a coffee shop, that somehow it's now become a Simple, Organic, Missional church. In essence and in practice, nothing is very different. The paradigm of how we view church never changed, only the location. They are still "doing" church, instead of "being" church. A very profound difference in theology and practice. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Many leaders who think they are starting a Simple Church, are just taking people with them from the traditional church where they had faithful relationships who supported their leadership, but who don't have a clue about what S/O/M life really is. They just are following their leader. When these people see that the leader is basically leading the same thing in just a smaller (and often more unhealthy) version of church, that doesn't offer them the "perks" that they are used to like child care, short services, professional music, youth activities and such, why stay? </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Understanding the paradigm of Simple, Organic, Missional life and fellowship and how it is practiced 24/7, is crucial. Some people don't want to make the commitment once they see that it requires more effort, maturity, accountability, involvement and commitment. Many are not willing to make such a lifestyle change, especially if they have found the convenience of traditional church more accommodating at fitting into their schedules. When they really begin to see what is required of them, they often leave for an easier venue of practicing their faith.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Another point I want to make is that we are used to thinking about church in the traditional sense of going on and on for generations in some town, city or region. We think of congregations as lasting forever. In the paradigm of S/O/M Church, fellowships are far more fluid. They form, grow, die, change, etc. according to the leading of the Lord and His Purposes. The eternalness of the Body of Christ is always there, but the fellowships and their makeups change. The Bible says that unless a kernel
falls to the ground and it dies, it cannot produce fruit. The death of something allows for the birth of someone else. Change is
healthy and life is transitional (birth, childhood, youth, adult, middle
age, old age). Our fellowships are also transitional, and that's okay! Our relationships with each other are eternal, and they aren't contingent upon how much or often we gather with each other. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I am not supportive of most "attractional" ways to gather
people for S/O/M fellowship. This is the way traditional churches try and build their congregations. Marketing is a big deal in our culture, and it certainly has affected the Church. I think that growth should happen naturally
through your relationships and contacts, and not through advertising. </span><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Many put their Simple Church on various websites, name and build networks, advertise and promote their groups to those seeking this venue of fellowship and life. I'm not a proponent of that. However, I do</span><span style="font-size: small;"> recognize that it may have some benefit in the connecting of people, but it feels to me like "church shopping" and artificial addition instead of natural growth through divine connections. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The best way to "get the word out" is to live your Christianity in ways that those around you
ask you questions about your faith and how you practice it. God will bring you in contact with those He wants you to connect with - that's His job, and He does it well without our help in advertising.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">****And that's all the questions we're going to address for now! Thanks for following them in these last few blog posts, and remember if you have some suggestions, thoughts, opinions or disagreements - feel free to post them in the comments section! </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> I named this blog <i>Backseat Driver </i>for a reason. YOU are the one in the front seat of your own journey with the Lord in this wonderful adventure called Simple, Organic, Missional life and fellowship. I'm just offering my thoughts on the journey to you in humility. If you find them confirmed by the Holy Spirit ........GREAT! God has used me to encourage and ignite you.........</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> If not, backseat drivers can easily be ignored.........:) </span><br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-4958246513540714572012-09-25T10:46:00.003-07:002012-09-25T10:49:21.924-07:00Questions Continued: What About Financial Support?<ul style="font-family: inherit;">
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<span style="font-size: small;">My quick answer? By working a job or jobs, or having a spouse who works to financially support your family's income needs. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I find that most of the time this question is asked by those who have been financially supported in ministry by receiving a salary from a traditional church or ministry. </span><span style="font-size: small;">Simple, Organic, Missional ministry is very different. There are a few instances that I know of where a
denomination or </span><span style="font-size: small;">an organization who is seeking this direction of church planting</span><span style="font-size: small;"> is funding the Organic Church Planter because that is how traditional church does church planting in the West. There are others (a very few) who receive income from their writing and speaking forums in this area. </span><br />
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majority of Simple, Organic, Missional Church Planters work secular jobs
to support themselves and family in some way. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">For me, between my
husband and myself, we have 9 separate streams of income from various jobs - (all but one is part-time and/or seasonal).</span>
<span style="font-size: small;"></span><span style="font-size: small;">It's part of the paradigm change to consider "full time ministry" not as something special, positional, professional, and from which you receive a salary, but instead where "ministry" is the normal Christian life for ALL of us as we present and live Christ to those around us in our daily journey. Ephesians 4:12 says, we are all called and equip "for works of service" in our normal lives made powerful because of Christ in us. In this paradigm there are no "secular jobs" or "sacred jobs", where one is holy and special, and the other not. Work<b><i> is</i></b> ministry, life <b><i>is</i></b> ministry - for everyone.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">When we work at a job/jobs, it means that there is not a lot of extra time to "do" ministry in the way we have thought it had to happen in the past traditional sense. This is where we think of ministry only happening in time slotted meetings, prepared orations of teaching, directed study, preplanned activities and organized events. The Simple, Organic, Missional paradigm is that <i><b>ministry is not something we do, but rather live</b>,</i> and it fits into our lives naturally in its' various contexts. It is not something for the "chosen few" professionals, but rather <i>the whole Body of Christ</i>. It is not "slotted" but fluid, and responsive to the direction of the Holy Spirit. We look for opportunities at work, with our families, in our neighborhood, with people we associate with through our children, communities of activity, in fellowship with other Christians, etc. to live ministry and Christ fluidly and naturally in all contexts. I spoke with a guy recently who resigned from a pastoral job and went back to school to become a nurse. He shared with me that he feels he is ministering to others far more through his nursing job, than he did through his weekly church events that were called "ministry". </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">But what about those in Ephesians 4 who are called to "equip the saints for works of service"? Shouldn't they get compensated? </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">My short answer? Yes and no. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Those called to equip the Body are not professions and positional. They are functional and with a divine authority attached to them that results in effective equipping and obvious fruit. Not everyone who thinks or calls themselves one of those listed in Ephesians 4, who take an assessment that tells them what they are, or have a seminary degree or title given by others, are necessarily those described in Ephesian 4 as 'equippers' of the Body. <u>We should be looking for fruit and the obvious evidence of the work of the Holy Spirit that endorses such a claim.</u></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The Apostle, Teacher, Evangelist, Pastor Paul (all obvious when viewing the fruit of his life) said in I Thessalonians 2:5-9, "<i>For we never came with flattering speech, as you know, nor with a pretext for greed - God is witness -nor did we seek glory from men, either from you or from others, even though as apostles of Christ we might have asserted our authority. But we proved to be gentle among you, as a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children. Having thus a fond affection for you, we were well-pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God but also our own lives, because you had become very dear to us. <b><u>For you recall, brethren, our labor and hardship, how working night and day so as not be be a burden to any on you we proclaimed to you the gospel of God."</u></b></i></span><br />
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He speaks of his authority and yet uses the example to describe his leadership as being "like a nursing mother tenderly caring for her own children". That is a distinctly opposite visual picture to "seeking glory from men, flattering speech, greed" and positional authority. A nursing mother is quiet, subdued and totally there for the nursing child at her breast. Certainly no mother expects compensation. Can you imagine a mother saying, "you owe me for nursing you ten times a day, seven days a week, for two years!" If we can see true Biblical leadership in terms of good mothering and fathering instead of as a CEO who needs compensation, then we will begin to understand this passage much better.....but that is another future blog post I'll have to write.........<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">RARELY do we hear and read books about the teaching in the Scriptures of the Apostle Paul (and others) who supported themselves financially WHILE living and "doing" ministry. Why not? Is it because most of those who teach the Scriptures don't work secular jobs, and they don't want to lose their financial support which would cause them to have to work secular jobs? It seems to me in reading the book of Acts, that Paul did incredibly powerful effective ministry WHILE making tents. Equipping Aquila and Priscilla, starting churches, teaching principles and doctrine, disciple making of men and women who would go on to plant churches and make disciples of their own. Paul did receive financial gifts at various times, his incarceration being one of those times. While he was in prison the making of tents was likely denied him, but I'd bet if given the opportunity, he would have made tents to support his own needs while he was sitting in jail. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> </span><span style="font-size: small;">I Corinthians</span><span style="font-size: small;"> chapter 9 is full of Paul's exhortation <u>regarding the right of those who minister </u>to receive financial support, <u>but he also chooses not to be dependent upon it</u>. In II Thessalonians 3:7-10 Paul says, "<i>For you yourselves know how you ought to follow our example, because we did not act in an undisciplined manner among you, nor did we eat anyone's bread without paying for it,<b> but with labor and hardship we kept working night and day so that we might not be a burden to any of you; <u>not because we did not have the right to this, but in order to offer ourselves as a model for you, that you might follow our example.</u></b> <b>For even when we were with you, we used to give you this order; if anyone will not work, neither let him eat." </b></i><u><b> </b></u></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The Scriptures have many verses that indicate that we need to financially support particular leaders who devote themselves to equipping the
Body for ministry. In order to get more of the Body of Christ really ministering like we emphasize in Organic, Simple, Missional life, we need the Equippers to be equipping! And that might mean supporting some financially so they have more time to do it. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">And, we need more examples of those who claim to be "equippers" working "day and night" and "as a model" to the Body of how to live ministry fluidly in the contexts of life AND work who do not expect financial support as a "right". </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">I believe that if there is evidence of fruit and impact, in certain seasons of life, and under certain circumstances, that some should receive financial support at
times if they are truly equipping others for service . We have to follow the teachings in Scriptures that endorse financial giving and working to support oneself - <u><b><i>both</i></b></u>!
Going back to the Apostle Paul, he sometimes got financial support and
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-37384453378287080042012-08-30T16:29:00.000-07:002012-08-30T16:29:35.717-07:00Questions Continued: What About Stagnant Fellowship? <h2>
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First, let's start with the premise that multiplication is good! Christ in us produces life, and that life produces more life! <i>Fertility is part of our natural, and spiritual DNA.</i> We are created to overflow the life of Christ into others, and that results in multiplication! When Jesus called out to Matthew one day as a tax collector who was just out taking care of business, he wasn't reaching out to <i>just </i>Matthew. Matthew was connected to a whole group of people, and he immediately invited his friends over to hang out with Jesus at his place. That resulted in many more people coming in contact with Christ. When Jesus conversed with the Samaritan Woman at the well, she immediately left and shared all she knew about him with others she was connected to in her village. The Church in Acts grew because they were intentional about sharing the Good News with those around them, even if that meant danger to their lives. Christ is out seeking and saving those who are lost - then and now. How He does that, is through our contact and connectedness to others through relationships.</div>
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There are many in the simple/organic church practice that are content to never grow - either by addition or multiplication. They prefer to remain a nice little comfortable (and usually predictable) fellowship of familiar faces. Many such people couch this insular focus in sanctimony, or in the belief that they will lose intimacy. The reality is that many people are just looking for a reason to prefer the safety, security, and the familiarity of stasis. Some people just don't see a problem with stagnation. In fact, some prefer it.</div>
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This word describes much of what happens in our fellowship gatherings - traditional or simple/organic. Why?<br /><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">I believe that <i>most people</i> <i>naturally gravitate to stagnation</i> and we have to intentionally fight against it if we don't want it. Think of rust forming. It will eventually form on metal because of the elements in the metal itself and in the environment. In order to combat rust, you must constantly be doing the things that combat it, or at least, hold it at bay. The same is true with stagnation in simple church fellowship. The older we get, our love of comfort, our struggles with insecurities and fears, if we are tired and overworked, if we are lazy or complacent in nature - these are just a few factors that inevitably lead us towards stagnation. Sometimes it is just easier to settle into stagnation, rather than fight against it. </span><br />
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<li><span style="font-size: small;"> <b><i><u>Keep the value of being missional in your fellowship together.</u></i> </b> Coming together is NOT just about "us"; the "me" generation. Fight the tendency towards selfish agendas. The best way to stay missional is to tap into the internal motivations of each person in the group. God has put into each of us inclinations that are natural missional expressions for us as individuals, and as a group, that He desires to use us in. I've written a lot about this in past blog posts, one most recently, (see the first post in Common Questions from July 30). </span></li>
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sadly, even adulthood! Many of our simple churches believe they have
unique, intimate, close, committed fellowship, and those around them
think they are more like a clique or even cultish!
A church I was in years ago, was once accused of being exclusive and
elite by other churches in that denomination, and it was true - we were,
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<li><span style="font-size: small;"><u><i><b>Be comfortable with ending the fellowship.</b></i></u> Scripture is full of dichotomy's - the way to greatness is through humility, the first will be last, pruning for fruitfulness, death that brings forth new life. Simple/Organic churches are not meant to go on, and on, and on, in the same way with the same people indefinitely. So much of the paradigm of the continual congregation comes from traditional churches that have been there for decades, mainly because they have a building to support, a denomination that keeps it going, the history attached, and religious behavior that falls into rote. In scripture, we see the fluidity of fellowships that change with life, relationships, and the Spirit of God working in purpose differently and according to His Plans. Our relationship to one another as believers and members of The Body, Bride and Church doesn't change, but our venues for that will and should if we are following the Spirit.</span></li>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-74042242562949167082012-08-23T15:08:00.000-07:002012-08-23T15:08:10.144-07:00 Questions Continued: What About Structure?<u><span style="font-size: small;"><b>What is the structure of the simple, organic home church?</b></span></u><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Here in the West, we live in a culture that is in love with structures, systems and manuals of operation. This is a significant factor in our perception and practice Simple, Organic Church. Not only do we have to consider our culture, but also such things as; personality, age, familiar practices, lives that are scheduled to the max, our work, ages of children, traditions, etc. All these can and do influence our attitude towards wanting more or less some degree of structure when it comes to fellowship paradigms. I often use a line of continuum as a visual example to explain this thought. The left side of the continuum represents a point of highly structured practices. Traditional churches, especially those with liturgies would be on this end. The other end at the right, is what I describe as fluid practice - where there is little, if any structure, and more like liquid or gas that is not dependent upon structure and even permeates around and through it. Much of missionary and evangelism work would be considered more fluid because it is not contingent on a special event or meeting. Rather it happens spontaneously, and with divine serendipity moments. People find a place of comfort and practice somewhere on the continuum. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Jesus practiced his fellowship all along the continuum, but remained mostly on the fluid end. The book of Acts gives us examples of more structured fellowship. I don't think structure of our fellowship is the main issue, but rather <b><i>what you do when you come together that is important. </i></b> The key to fellowship being simple and organic, is being like Jesus who "only did that which the Father was doing". So that means seeking the Father for His Will for the simple church. </span><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;">So the first question to ask is;<i> what is God directing for this simple church in this season of coming together?</i> </span></b><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Is it to focus on a deeper understanding of the Word, doing outreach together, maturing new believers, deepening family intimacy, spending quality and quantity time in prayer or worship, ministry equipping, fun and relationship building, releasing others to begin new simple churches? </span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Like life, our fellowship should be viewed in holistic terms that <i>change with the rhythms of our lives </i>and <i>the themes that God is working in and through us at this time</i>, and <i>not stagnant meetings which become rote over time. </i>Once we know what God is focusing on in our lives, and how much structure that requires, we can structure our time together for that to happen.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">For example, in one simple church we began, it was apparent to all of us that God was bringing us together for a season of encouraging one another in the specific and unique ways that each of us was feeling led to minister in. It was a season of "coaching one another" with the truths of the Word, prophetic words, prayer support, encouragement and accountability. Our structure supported this happening. After about a year, God released everyone to these ministries and the group disbanded. The relationships are still there years later, but the time of that simple church reached it's end. Another group came together for a season of working on our marriages so we structured our time to include some DVDs that taught on marriage issues, had some great "date" nights together, spent some nights in ministry prayer for specific couples, and we didn't include the children in this simple church. And in another simple church we led, children were very much a part of it so we structured eating together with "kid friendly" foods, playing together as a simple church with games, stories, toys etc. We did worship with a ton of instruments that the kids could play (shakers, bells, chimes, drums, etc.), kept the study of the Bible short and applicable to the kids in the group, and ended early in the evening to meet bedtimes. In this simple church we were far less structured, and because of having the children participate, our times became quite fluid.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The <i>reason</i> <i>and purpose</i> for the simple church determined the structure and duration of the fellowship we experienced. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Most people who begin to practice Simple, Organic, Missional Church start out by bringing with them all the familiar structure of what they knew in traditional church, i.e. the same time/place each week, someone leading worship, usually the same person doing the facilitating/leading each week, scripture study, prayer time, fellowship time, and it's pretty much the same from week to week. Nothing much has really changed except they went from big to small, and from a building to a home. They change very little in what they do and look like from the traditional church they left. Many call this "honey, I shrunk the church" syndrome and it's very common.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Some of the major strengths of Simple, Organic and Missional church practice is that it is mobile, intimate with God and others, it is done easily by anyone, can change without bureaucracy, adapts to circumstances, and supports everyone in their participation. As we like to say in the CMAresources <i>Greenhouse</i> is to; " lower the bar on HOW we do church, and raise the bar on being a disciple". </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Here's my take - If we <i>think of church like a family,</i>
then we know that the structure of family gatherings changes with
life and the seasons God takes us through to mature. For example, when my kids were young, we had set times for dinner
and everyone was home and around the table. As they grew older and
more involved in activities like sports, drama, dance and such, and my husband
started working nights, we shifted our meals and lives to accommodate these
changes in our life as a family. <b><i>The structure of our dinners changed,
but our relationships didn't. </i></b> <i>What else didn't change was the
interactions, involvements, and commitments with each other</i><b><i> because our
relationships determined our fellowship - not our structure! </i></b> We were still family and spent time together but what that looked like changed, and still continues to do so!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The Bible is clear about the things we should accomplish in our relationships with one another as The Body of Christ. Some of those listed are; encouragement, prayer, the Lords Supper, each using their spiritual gifts, admonishment, confession, the study of the Scriptures, the sharing of resources, and many more! This happens through the holistic interaction of our lives with one another. It doesn't all have to happen at a scheduled and structured time every week with a few.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span>Of course, most of us need some element of structure because we don't live very fluid lives, but rather from "event to event" and pack our calendars full with our time slots. So since that is how much of western world lives, I'd recommend checking out what my <span style="font-size: small;">friends Tony and Felicity Dale have put together as a great resource which covers the many details and basic paradigm of having fellowship in the home at the House2House website. You can find it at<a href="http://www.site.house2house.com/news-a-resources/video-resources"> http://www.site.house2house.com/news-a-resources/video-resources</a> </span><br />
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-74045892320718004472012-08-16T15:28:00.000-07:002012-08-16T15:28:08.496-07:00More Questions About Simple, Organic, Missional Church/Life<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">
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<span style="font-size: small;">In the motorcycle riding and safety classes we teach, one of the questions during the classroom portion is: "Who is responsible for safety on the road?" The answer is all of us, those of us riding a motorcycle AND those who are driving cars are all responsible for safety. The same is true of disciple making. All of us who are followers of Christ are responsible to disciple others. We make ourselves available and willing, and God does all the work.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Here is a direct quote from a letter I recently received from Jim in Wisconsin who is passionate about making disciples. Jim says, "You
see friends we are all disciple makers.
In this past week, Linda and I are seeing that those who we disciple, are
making disciples, and those people are making disciples. It is all completed by our loving
God. I stand by my 3 L’s of making
disciples; <u>LISTEN, LOVE, LEAD</u> BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT. "</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Jim said it great! If everyone understands that making disciples is all of our responsibility as those who follow Christ, it then becomes an issue of obedience, and not of "calling", "profession", or someone Else's job. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Be around those who are not Christians and be available to introduce Jesus in many contexts.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Then you have relationships with those who are not presently, but may become, disciples. This means you START with those who don't know Jesus yet. The process of making an disciple happens before
someone is even a Christian. Jesus was making disciples out of the
rag tag group of men and women who were following him WAY before they even understood who He really was! All they knew in the beginning, was that this was a guy who made them think differently than anyone else ever had. He also did some very unusual things, and he was touching their heart in ways that nothing else ever had before.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> My husband and I started making disciples out of our three children<i> before </i>they ever made a commitment on their own to follow Christ. We talked <i>about </i>Jesus like He was alive and always interacting with us. We <i>spoke to</i> Jesus, God, and the Holy Spirit like they were right there in our midst, and eager for our attention. We asked Jesus about issues and guidance in decisions, and relied upon Him for healing, safety, provision, etc. Our children got to know Jesus, The Father and the Holy Spirit in character, love, forgiveness, faithfulness, provision, etc. through the natural challenges, joys and issues of our daily lives. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Making a
disciple means having an authentic relationship where you continually bring
the truth of Christ and His Presence into the relationship, and that happens from the moment you meet someone. I have many friends in my life who don't follow Jesus "yet", but still are interested in me praying for them, encouraging them, and sharing truth into their lives and circumstances. Others don't even want that, but they just like to "hang out" together for the time being. Either way - I rest, knowing God is one One who brings men/women to Himself in faith, so I just keep sowing and enjoying the relationship for what it is. I let God do the big work of revelation, conviction, salvation, and conformation to Christ. I just make myself available and "ready to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence." 1 Pet 3:15.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"> I knew a young woman years ago who started coming to the church I was attending, who was somewhat interested in knowing more about being a Christian. She was living with her boyfriend at the time, and she was watching pretty violent "snuff" type movies as her entertainment. We began a friendship together, and I brought Jesus into it with our conversations. It didn't take long before she was asking me if she should quit both living with her boyfriend, and watching these movies if she was seriously going to be a Christian. You might be surprised that my response to her was not what I wanted to say which was; "yes, quit both of those activities right now!" Instead, I said to her, "if you want to be a Christian, that means you have a relationship with Christ that allows <b><i>you</i></b> to ask Him what He thinks about these things. Ask Him, and see what He says to you about it, and then do what He says." I continued to hang out with her, treating her as a friend and someone I truly enjoyed being with, and waited to see what Jesus would tell her. It didn't take too long before she said to me one day, "I moved out of living with my boyfriend because I felt Jesus wanted me to". And then a few weeks after that she said, "I don't want to watch those movies anymore. I'm not sure why, but they don't interest me anymore like they used to." </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"> I was watching Jesus make His own disciple, and was blessed to be a part of the process! This woman has been very missional over the years in her faith, having many different simple churches in her home, and she has been a light to many in very dark places.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Making a disciple means to point others to Jesus who is the Author and Perfecter of their faith. To encourage them to listen to Jesus (as opposed to you, or some great book or teacher) and then obey what He says. </span><span style="font-size: small;">Not everyone wants to be a disciple. Many never made
that commitment when Jesus <i>Himself </i>was right in front of them! However,
if we are listening and obeying and sharing our love of Jesus with
others all around us, <i>fruit will result from it</i>, and some will
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<span style="font-size: small;">In the flesh, we have tried to make disciples who follow a denomination, a charismatic leader, a fellowship large or small, a social/political agenda, or something else OTHER than Jesus. We have the fruit of those efforts - nothing! Jesus is the only thing that will produce new life - period.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Making disciples
is about KNOWING JESUS and teaching people how to do that through prayer and the Word of God, and then obeying what He says to us. There are no special gifts, skills, education, training, certificates, or seminary that is needed to point people to the "author and perfecter" of our faith. <i><u>Just a desire to seek Jesus, listen to what He says, and then do it.</u></i> Anyone can do that! </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">By removing the hindrance of the "necessity of special training" that is needed to make disciples, it sets people free to do what is natural to them if they have a relationship with Jesus and with others. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">When our kids were very young, they were the incredibly good
at making disciples of those around them, and we expected and encouraged them to do so! We didn't say, "bring them to mommy and daddy, and we'll teach your friends how to know Jesus", but we encouraged them do it, and we saw God back them up with His presence and power!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">For those of you who love tools, a great one in helping people become disciples who learn to seek God, listen and obey, are the LTG cards through CMA Resources (<a href="http://www.cmaresources.org/resources">http://www.cmaresources.org/resources)</a>. Check out their website and order a few.</span></div>
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-9468555143059368052012-07-30T09:48:00.001-07:002012-07-30T09:48:22.479-07:00Common Questions I'm Asked About Simple, Organic, Missional Life and FellowshipI am repeatedly asked many of the same questions by those who are interested in Simple, Organic, Missional church. These questions come up inevitably over phone calls, at coffee shops, at a CMA Resources Greenhouse training event I am doing, or while mentoring and coaching someone in this paradigm. Here are some of these common questions, and my responses to them.<br />
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Maybe these are questions you have, or you have a response to share. Feel free to add your own questions, experiences and/or responses in the comments section below. <br />
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<li><u><i><b>How do you build an effective outreach dimension to our existing house group?</b> </i></u></li>
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What is primary to any gathering of believers in Christ, is that those believers see themselves and others as church planters and missionaries into their own unique realm of relationships and communities to which they belong.<i> </i>If you look at the explosion of the church in the book of Acts, and now in such places as China, India and Africa, you see that the <i><u>average Christian is sharing their own testimony of Christ with those they have access to, and relationship with.</u></i> My friend Neil Cole likes to say, "the gospel is to be spread on the wings of relationships". Every person has a network of relationships that they engage with, unless they live alone on a desert island! <br />
When we come to Christ initially, most of us are eager and unabashed about telling everyone around us how great Jesus is, because our life has dramatically changed! Sadly, most of us lose that natural initiative to reach out to others with The Good News, because we lose our passion, substitute "meetings" for mission, and we "give that job" to someone else.<br />
God has placed within each person who is in Christ, the Holy Spirit and the power to be effective witness's to Himself. Each person! In the past, we have looked to specific positions and leaders to do this. However, Ephesians tells us that leaders are there to "equip the saints for the work of the ministry" - not DO all the ministry. <i>When only a few do ministry, or what we perceive as valuable ministry, we inadvertently hobble the majority of saints in their power and purpose.</i> In contrast, when we see each person working in their individual and God given purposes to advance the Kingdom, we see a TEAM come together, a BODY working, and Christ is revealed into ALL communities in UNIQUE manner.<br />
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<i>The key is uncovering, unlocking, igniting and encouraging each member to step out into what intrinsically motivates them. God has purposed each Christian to be His "fellow workers" and He has put a unique enthusiasm within them to fulfill it.</i><br />
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Does someone have a heart for the homeless or poor? Maybe young parents? Possibly the refugees and immigrants in your city? There might be a guy who just wants to help widows, single moms, and those without much income, keep their car in working order. Or someone who wants to visit and transport the elderly who are home-bound and lonely. Does someone has a heart to start a community garden and interact with the community through it? The possibilities are as numerous as the issues of life that come to all of us. <b>God has placed within each Christian a strategic empowerment to reach into all the normal realms of life, so that He Himself, can be revealed through the average Christian.</b><br />
<i>Take the time</i> to discover and learn what each person has inside them that has been dormant, discouraged, disillusioned, or held quietly, in regards to what they are passionate about. Pray, encourage, empower, come alongside each other in mission and outreach - big or small. Get excited about what God has placed within each person as a unique extension of Himself to reach out to others! Each person is an "Esther" for "such a time as this" to bring the realities of Christ to those around them.<br />
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When I share this, I like to give people a visual picture of a group (like a simple church) all holding hands in a circle, except as you would expect - your NOT all facing inward, but instead <i>your facing outward with your backs to the center of the circle.</i> This is a great picture of each person supporting one another by holding hands and covering/protecting the vulnerable "back" of each other, and yet facing OUTWARD. <br />
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What wonderful missional adventure awaits you as you look outward for it?<br />
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Since most of us have put "doing church" into a slot of Christian activity a few times (at best) each week, we easily forget that we ARE the church every minute of every day - whether for good or not, we are the representatives of Jesus on this earth. Most of us settle into having only Christian relationships, and I know some people who would be hard-pressed to name a handful of people they invest time in that are not Christians! The fact is, we have people around us everyday who don't know Jesus, but we just "go blind" to seeing them. Each day, all of us have opportunities to be the fragrance of Christ to those around us. Like any perfume - some like the smell, and other people don't, but <i>we are supposed to SMELL</i>, and hopefully your walking in a way that your smelling good and full of Jesus! The Bible says that we are like salt, and if salt loses it's saltiness, it is worthless even for manure. We are called to illicit some flavor to those around us so they are curious and want more information about why we "seem different". Salt is enticing, and causes us to crave more.<br />
We are to be a Jesus fragrance to the stink of the world (not always smelling each others fragrance in our Christian fellowships), and to add the enticing salty flavor to<i> those needing salt </i>-what good is salt if it stays altogether in the salt jar?<br />
Have relationships with no agendas other than to simply "smell like Christ", add some salt, and be ready to have an answer if they want more information. If they don't ask - that's okay! Your still carrying around the Presence of Christ and your sowing may result in someone else reaping. <i>People are not projects for whom we have an agenda, but rather opportunities to drop a little of Jesus in their path</i>. Why not see people as relationships that for whatever season, venue, or time you have with them, you have a window of opportunity to be a fragrance and salt that they might see something appealing and different in you, and want more! Jesus is the One who " draws men to Himself" - we are called to have relationships that allow people get a whiff or taste of Him.<br />
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Here are some tangible things from my own life for those of you who want more practical, rather than conceptual help. Remember - these are NOT things to do with those in your Christian circles of relationships, (of course you can, but then your not sowing) but rather with those who don't know Christ. <br />
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<li>Weed, mow their lawn, shovel their snow, plant a garden, give some flowers/vegetables to your neighbor/s, offer to take care of things when they leave for a vacation, help them with a home building project or car/motorcycle maintenance</li>
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<li>Have a baby shower, welcome to the neighborhood BBQ, a children's backyard party for those in your neighborhood, sprinkler/water balloon battle with kids/parents in the neighborhood, ice cream cones party for everyone, multifamily garage sale, neighborhood events of all sorts!</li>
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<li>Encourage, engage, pray for, talk with, and regularly visit the same store clerks/gas station attendant, coffee barristers, etc. building rapport and relationship </li>
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<li>Take neighbors, co-workers, etc. to doctor appointments when they need someone to drive them or support them</li>
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<li>Go out to movies, dinners, parties, game night, Farmer' Market's, rodeos, motorcycle events, car races, Pow Wow's, cultural celebrations, Zumba, and other events with people who DON'T know Jesus</li>
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<li>Go on vacation, camping, weekend "get-a-way's" with people (again - who DON'T know Jesus) and even offer to pay for some or all of it if they couldn't go otherwise </li>
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<li>Go to a sports event together (don't just give away your ticket), go to their child's game in support, walk your dogs together, go shopping together, canoe, picnic, or hike, take a motorcycle/bicycle ride together</li>
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<li>Help tutor adults or children with a need, offer help with finding doctors/dentists etc. in the area, help with find a job, resume upgrades, practice interviewing, help with doing taxes</li>
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<li>Offer to help with child care (one night or as needed), help the children with homework, food for when someone is sick or after a death, cook a meal together sharing recipes/skills</li>
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<li>Clean their home for them as a gift, buy them groceries if they would need them, pay a bill for them in a tight month, buy the kids "back to school" stuff, or a new outfit for a job interview</li>
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I could continue - but hopefully you'll see something in there that will stimulate you to "love and good deeds" and will help you see the daily opportunities around you to sow the fragrance and saltiness of Jesus into the people who are living right around you, in your own unique way. <br />
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More questions in the next blog post....................................<br />
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<br /><br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-80739638386983247862012-06-22T13:00:00.000-07:002012-06-22T13:00:43.695-07:00The Practice & Power of Hospitality<div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
Once we invited our neighboring Mexican family over for dinner to celebrate the husbands birthday. I knew he had tried roasted prime rib once and loved it, but they couldn't afford it, and didn't know how to cook it. Of course when I served it for his birthday meal, he lit up like a kid in a candy shop! "For me?", he asked. "Really? I have not had anyone ever go to so much trouble before to celebrate my birthday, and you even know that I like this meat best!" He beamed throughout the meal, and the family was all smiles that we were celebrating and honoring their family in this way. They stayed well into the evening opening up and sharing personal stories, and allowing us to pray for them before they left. A door into their heart was opened to Christ through roasted prime rib.<br />
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Hospitality is not the kind of spiritual gift that dynamically changes a life in a moment, like the gift of healing. Nor is it powerful in unlocking understanding, as in the gift of teaching. It is not especially empowering or encouraging like the gift of prophecy. For all these things that it may <i>not be</i>, hospitality<i> is powerful in unlocking and preparing a person/persons for all these spiritual things to take place.</i> It is like a platform, an environment, that creates an atmosphere of welcome, acceptance, freedom, security and love from which ministry and the Presence of Jesus can flow and accomplish His purposes. Living a life of hospitality is also living a life of ministry and mission. Hospitality is a "one another" ministry to those who already know Christ. However, when extending hospitality to those who don't know Christ, it then becomes missional hospitality. Your mission is to introduce and communicate Jesus in tangible and powerful ways, and then let Jesus take it from there. This is one of the best and most valuable reasons for living simple, organic church out of your home. It's a powerful venue if you understand and make us of it's power.<br />
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Here are some tangible ways to communicate the value and worth of people as we welcome them into our homes and ultimately our lives. Whether it is for one day, an evening, or a few days, the basic principles are the same in practicing hospitality. <br />
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<li>Research your guests and know some information about them. They will notice that you made an effort (however small) to attend to their uniqueness and that will immediately communicate their value to you. Things like certain foods and drinks that they enjoy, putting dogs/cats in other rooms if they are afraid or allergic to them. Find out any particular comforts that will mean a lot to them, like a glass of water near their bed, the particular snacks they like, extra blankets, etc. Fine tune your hospitality to meet their needs. When I visit with my friend the Dale's, they always turn the jacuzzi on in the evenings because they know it is a treat for me to use it since we don't have one, and I love to sit in the jacuzzi!</li>
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<li>Serve your guests. Especially in the beginning until they feel comfortable in your home. For some people this may take awhile, and for others this can be pretty
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<li>Let them have the best you have to offer. We have a large leather recliner that is the most comfortable chair in our home, as well as some comfy couches. Instead of securing the best spot for ourselves, we sit in the <i>least comfortable places,</i> giving preference to our guests. </li>
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<li>One thing I learned from my friends from other countries, was to provide a small gift on occasion for those coming over. Chocolates, a card, something personal in their guest room, all communicate (with the power that giving gifts uniquely does) how special they are to you.</li>
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<li>Listen, ask questions, be interested in their life! I can't tell you how many times I have been a guest in someones home and I have not been asked anything about me, my life, my family, etc. That alone communicates loudly that you are really not interested in them, <i>and to only talk about yourself and your life exemplifies it!</i></li>
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<li>In our culture, and depending on the region you live in, the practice of "dropping in" is regarded as uncomfortable at best, and rude at worst. But if we want our home to be a hospitable place, folks need to feel that they can come by anytime and we will be happy to receive them. This was hard for me because I was the type of person who wanted the house nice, clean and everything prepared when someone came by. I wanted to feel "ready" for visitors. We have a Laotian friend who is deaf who would stop by at the worst times. He'd walk in the house while I was napping, dressing, getting ready to leave, just sitting down to dinner, disciplining our kids...you get the idea. But we got over it, and we learned to love his interruptions of our lives, and enjoy his company for the time he spent with us. <u>Repeat
and repeat </u>that you're okay with people "stopping by" unannounced, and then when they do - receive them like your okay with it. If
your not, then don't do this, but realize that may cause people to see that you have "conditional hospitality" that is based upon their pre-scheduling their visits.</li>
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*A note about this if your wanting to reach your neighborhood with hospitality. Kids
in our neighborhood always have the invitation to come into our
house anytime during the day or early evening, and we encourage them to experience
our home as an inviting and safe place, and as a refuge if they needed it. Many have done this,
and some powerful times of sharing, prayer, and counsel between them and our kids, and with Tom and I, have occurred over the years. A couple times instead of running away, they came to our place instead because they felt comfortable coming into our home.</div>
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The bottom line of hospitality is to communicate through your words and actions - love. God wants to use our lives and homes incredible ways, if we understand the power that hospitality holds and make diligent use of it. The Bible says, "<span style="font-style: italic;">A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. </span><span style="font-style: italic;">By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."</span> John 13: 34-35.<br />
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<br /></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-36293607336946917152012-06-19T15:26:00.001-07:002012-06-19T15:26:42.925-07:00Men and HospitalityLet's be honest. Especially here in the West, if we think of hospitality at all, we immediately associate it with the female gender. We've been socialized to think of the home as the female domain and even use the analogy of a bird in commonly calling the home "her nest". No matter that in almost all bird species, the male is just as active in building, maintaining and incubating the nest as his female partner, and in some bird species even more active and involved than the female! This gender linking to hospitality generally prevails in our minds here in the West, even if the female works outside of the home most of the time, and/or has little interest or inclination towards it . This paradigm has been changing in the last couple decades, and of course there are a few guys here and there who are the exception when it comes to this, but generally speaking, women are still given the role and expected to be the primary hospitality person over a man. Of course, in most other areas of the world, hospitality is very much a man's role.<br />
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Biblically, hospitality is not gender specific. Both men and women are given the responsibility and charge to be hospitable in the Bible. The Bible gives clear examples of both men and women practicing it.<br />
I believe, as in a healthy Biblical family where there is both a male/father and a female/mother who each have unique and specific contributions in the parenting and family life of the home, so in hospitality there is also a unique contribution that men and women make that is often quite different from each other in how it is practiced and the value it imparts to those it is dispensed upon. <br />
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I believe that <i>men are given the </i><i>initial responsibility for hospitality and have a </i><i>unique influence to create the atmosphere of welcome and inclusiveness for those who enter their home.</i> <br />
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I gave a number of examples of men in the Bible doing this in the first post with; Jesus (our final banquet host), Abraham, Lot, Jethro, Elders/Overseer's, and in addition there are more examples with; Cornelius, Matthew, the Jailor (who invited Paul to his home), Publius (at Malta), the father with prodigal son, Phillip in Caesarea, and Joseph with his brothers.<br />
These are all men (although a case could be made for women elders - but that's another post), who acted as hosts and initiated hospitality to welcome and serve those who were their guests. <br />
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Men create the initial atmosphere of welcome, value, affirmation and the sense that you are important as a guest in their home in a special way that can be quite powerful. Like an affirming father who opens heart and home, and says by word and action; "I am so glad your here!"<br />
It doesn't matter what age you are - you feel valued. That's powerful hospitality!<br />
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Here are two examples from my own life to use as illustrations as to the value and importance of men in the initiation and operation of hospitality. The first one illustrates the lack of hospitality, and the second one the impact of it operating fully.<br />
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Once we were invited by a man who was a leader in his region to his a home for a few days to minister. When we arrived, the male host had someone else meet us at the airport and take us back to his home. We were shown our rooms by the wife, and then left on our own while she went about her responsibilities of that day. After a few hours of sitting around entertaining ourselves, we were all pretty hungry and didn't know if we would be eating soon, or expected to fast. Eventually we were told, "help yourselves to whatever you find", which was very uncomfortable for all of us as we searched through the kitchen spurred on by the rumbles of our stomachs. After finding some leftovers, we sat around eating and talking with each other because there was nothing else to do. We saw the host himself only for a brief quick greeting at the end of the day, and then we wandered to our rooms to wonder if we had done something to offend our hosts. We imagined there must have been an emergency or something that came up to pull the attention of our hosts from us as guests, and silently hoped that soon we'd be shown the hospitality that would cause us to relax and feel welcomed. This was not to be. Our team was uncomfortable in this home for the few days we stayed there even with the wife of the host doing her best to offer us some hospitality even while she was busy working a job outside of the home. It felt like we were intruding, even though we had been invited. Ignored and left on our own for most of the time, we tried to find ways to minister and make use of our time there. Some on the team found other lodging. Our hosts treated us in the antithesis of true hospitality. I can only assume they believed that hospitality was to supply a room and kitchen. Unfortunately, their actions communicated loudly to us that we were not worth their time and effort as invited guests. I have never been back.<br />
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In contrast, on another occasion we experienced the power of hospitality done right. Our host welcomed us into his home by being at the door and giving us the biggest hugs as he was proclaiming, "I've been waiting for you, and I am so glad you've finally arrived! Welcome to my home! We are so excited to have you here with us!" He introduced us to his wife and family, and he led us into a simple but warm and readied home. Wow! That was enough for me, I was good! Whatever happened from there on was icing on the cake! However, our host was just getting started. He knew what foods and drinks we enjoyed and had them in supply for our visit. He and his wife both served us throughout our time there. They were sensitive to our needs, initiated conversation, but also allowed us some "down time" to relax and not socialize. <i>They treated us like honored and special guests who were not imposing, but rather blessing them by being there.</i> It was very impacting and humbling. It felt like Jesus Himself was our host, loving and serving us through this man and his wife.<br />
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In both my examples, the men set the tone of what kind of experience of hospitality we would have in their homes. It was the men who initiated the first impression on whether we were wanted or just tolerated. Their influence was profound and powerful in what and how it was communicated to us. <br />
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There is something uniquely honoring about a man welcoming others into his home and family, and then being attentive in serving them. Hospitality is not just for women! It is for all of us who seek to use our homes as welcoming sanctuaries for all we are privileged to welcome inside. <br />
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Brothers, all I can say to you is; "Man up, and walk in the powerful tool of hospitality to communicate worth, value and The Father's great love to all who enter your home!"<br />
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*****The next blog post will be suggestions, ideas and specific things you can do to communicate hospitality .........<br />
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Till then,<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-41563886815183826352012-05-28T11:12:00.001-07:002012-05-28T11:12:49.414-07:00Hospitality and Sardines!In the previous post I laid the foundation of the Biblical emphasis of hospitality and it's incredible value in the Kingdom of God. In this post and a few future posts, I will give you some examples from my own life, and from the lives of those around me, as they use the power of hospitality to bring people into relationship.<br />
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Have you ever considered that playing games together can cause people to feel welcomed into your life and family?<br />
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On what was my first of many visits to the home of Tony and Felicity Dale, I had hardly arrived before I was told we were playing the game "Sardines" with some of their family members who had come over for the evening. Okay, I thought, I was up for games, but I didn't know at the time what kind of game Sardines was. A nice quite board game, or perhaps cards? Not quite. An adult version of hide and seek - Dale style!<br />
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Tony and Felicity live in a very large, rambling old Texas home that was once a brothel. It has rooms inside of rooms and all sorts of small closets, hidden passages, and wonderful crawl spaces. It's a child's dream house of exploration and adventures! This home also becomes <i>very dark</i> once the lights are all turned off. In the game of Sardines, all of the lights are turned off, and everyone scrambles to find a hiding place. The "finder" then makes their way through the house trying to find each person who is hiding - all in the dark. The last person found wins the game. Now, you may be thinking - that's not so hard! Remember, I had never been in their home before, and within an hour of arriving, expected to find a place to hide in the dark - in this massive sprawling home! Let me tell you, that was a bit intimidating! However, it also sounded like a challenge, and I like challenges. To my surprise I began to feel the excitement building to play this childhood game, in a new adult style! Game on!<br />
I wandered along in the dark, feeling my way into what I thought was a closet, hunkered down under some blankets, and waited. I had no idea where I was in the house, but I figured they wouldn't lose me! I eventually was found (next to the last by-the-way), and joined the others waiting for the winner to be found (who had crawled into a bookcase!) I had a blast! It was the most fun I'd had in years, and through it, I felt like the door had been opened wide for me to be welcomed into this family as we played like children together. It was a powerful demonstration that playing with one another, as we did when we were young, was incredibly inclusive and relationship building. It was also a way to say, no area of my home is off limits to you as my welcomed guest! Super hospitality!<br />
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<i>Scattergories</i> is a board game that our family loves to play, and if your around our home for any amount of time you'll be invited to play along with us. Plenty of other board games, card games and such outdoor stuff like Volleyball, Badminton, water balloon fights, camping trips, spontaneous picnics, are all ways that we have shown those invited over to our home our hospitality, and the message of inclusion into our lives. We want to play with you!<br />
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When I had a number of speakers come to a conference I hosted here a
couple years ago called Living The Mission, I had rented a couple
squash courts to use at a local fitness center where we had fun playing each other in the game. It didn't matter that most of us sucked at the game, it was part of the fun laughing at each other trying to return a serve! Afterwards, we all came back to my home for barbecue
and relaxation before the evening meetings at the conference began. <br />
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There is a special bonding that happens when you play together. When you have fun, laugh, tease, win and lose together. It communicates some of the aspects of being a family. It serves someone by opening the door to more "exclusive" family activities, and communicates their belonging in powerful ways. It's hospitality.<br />
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We have invited neighbors, and those we are sharing Christ with, to the Driver Family Cabin which Tom's parents own about an hour from Minneapolis for a weekend of relaxation, boating, fishing, and swimming. We serve them with all they need for a nice weekend, and we have seen the power of this hospitality open their hearts towards us and the realities of Jesus. <br />
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Jesus himself shows us the value of playing together when He did His first miracle by turning the water into wine at the wedding of a friend. He became the "host of the host", as he served the event with great wine so they could continue in their fun and celebration! One of my favorite "Jesus movies" is the one done word for word, through the book of Matthew called, "The Visual Bible: Matthew (1993)". In this version, Jesus laughs, wrestles, teases and plays with those around Him. It is powerful and great reminder of the joyful and fun Jesus, who enjoys life and sharing it with people!<br />
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So I challenge you to find your own version of Sardines, or whatever is your own way of playing together, and invite some of your neighbors, co-workers, and those the Lord is prompting you to build relationship with, over to do it with you! You may find that in sharing your home and playing together, that it will open their heart to you in ways you never fathomed.<br />
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Do you have any stories of playing together in hospitality that you can share? <br />
<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-2837681685126709082012-05-24T14:49:00.001-07:002012-05-24T14:49:40.986-07:00The Importance of Hospitality in Simple Church - Part 1I can't emphasize enough the importance of hospitality as an element of simple church life. If you have come from traditional church paradigms, your used to thinking of "the gift of hospitality" as referring to those women who laid out the coffee and donuts after a service, or put together a meal after a funeral. Possibly, your experience might have included "home groups" that met for fellowship and possibly a Bible study where the host/hostess provided some snacks and drinks using her "gift of hospitality" on you. That is NOT what I'm talking about! That's a western, and completely water-downed version of what Biblical hospitality really is. The Scriptures are clear that hospitality is far more than what we usually think it is, and it's not just the gift of a few women. In fact, it has as much to do with men as with women - but that's another blog post for the future......<br />
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The real practice of hospitality makes people feel they belong. It makes people feel special, important, and and <i>warmly welcomed into your life</i> - not just your home!<br />
It's receiving strangers like they are family, and <i>communicating through your words and actions that they are well worth your time and effort.</i><br />
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One time, on one of my trips to Brazil, we stopped at a house to inquire if anyone wanted prayer in that home. The residents were unfamiliar to us, but warmly welcomed us inside and quickly found us some chairs from a back room to sit upon. I gazed around at the simple surroundings. This household was poor, and they had little beyond the very basics of life. I expected them to tell us what we could pray and minister to them in, but that didn't seem to be their priority. Instead, they were going to minister to us! Soon we had drinks in our hand, and we were informed that we were to stay for a meal. Meal? Well, okay. I thought the meal would be some leftovers that would be warmed up and served to us within a short time. In fact, the host sent his older children to go a purchase some food and more drinks, and then proceeded to entertain us while his wife cooked us a full meal from scratch! We spent an entire afternoon in the home, being treated like passing royalty, probably consuming the family's food budget for the month, with the meal they provided for us! <br />
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I experienced the Biblical practice of hospitality that day, and it was more powerful than any sermon or teaching I'd had in years! I felt loved, honored, valued, welcomed, and a part of their family. Wow! If we could get this practice operating and maturing in the Body of Christ - we would be powerful in communicating Christ to each other and the world.<br />
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In our western culture we have lost most of the centrality of hospitality to normal life. We have minimized it into cookies and coffee. In the Middle East, and certainly during the times of the Old and New Testament, hospitality was a central cultural norm of behavior and it was frequently illustrated and exhorted. For something to be talked about as much as it is in the Bible, it must be very important, powerful and a practice that we should be paying attention to.<br />
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Let's look at a few Scriptural examples where love and hospitality are placed together: <br />
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<li><span class="quote_small_height">"</span><i><span class="text Rom-12-10" id="en-NASB-28256">Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor;</span><sup> </sup><span class="text Rom-12-11" id="en-NASB-28257"><sup class="versenum"> </sup>not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord;</span><span class="text Rom-12-12" id="en-NASB-28258"><sup class="versenum"> </sup> rejoicing in hope, persevering in tribulation, devoted to prayer,</span> <span class="text Rom-12-13" id="en-NASB-28259"> contributing to the needs of the saints, practicing hospitality.</span></i><span class="quote_small_height"><i>" </i> <i>Romans 12: 10-13 (NASB)</i></span></li>
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<li><span class="quote_small_height">"</span><i><span class="text 1Pet-4-8" id="en-NASB-30455"><sup class="versenum"> </sup>Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins.</span><span class="text 1Pet-4-9" id="en-NASB-30456"> Be hospitable to one another without complaint.</span><span class="text 1Pet-4-10" id="en-NASB-30457"><sup class="versenum"> </sup> As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.</span></i><span class="quote_small_height"><i>"</i> </span><i>1 Peter 4:8-10 (NASB)</i></li>
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love continue. Don't forget to show hospitality to strangers, for in
doing so, some have entertained angels without knowing it."</i></span><i> Hebrews 13:1-2 (NASB)</i></li>
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<li>"<i>an overseer/elder must be above reproach as God's steward, not self-willed, not quick-tempered, not addicted to much wine, not pugnacious, not fond of sordid gain, but hospitable...</i>." 1 Titus 1:7-8 (NASB)</li>
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In the Old Testament God firmly establishes the importance of hospitality with many examples, here are just a couple:<br />
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<li>Abraham welcoming the visiting strangers with a wonderful dinner</li>
<li>The Shunamite woman giving Elisha his own room and provided for him out of her poverty</li>
<li> Lot offering hospitality to the visiting angels sent to Sodom </li>
<li>Jethro towards Moses </li>
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Hospitality was regarded by most nations of the ancient world as
one of the chief virtues. The relationship between host and
guest was sacred. (BTW -This is still true today in most Middle Eastern, South American, Native American and Asian cultures.) Our western emphasis on individuality and independence has drastically diminished our understanding and practice of this great and powerful aspect of life together.<br />
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When Jesus will demonstrate <i>His hospitality</i> in heaven one day, we will get the royal treatment and a full realization of the importance and powerful blessing of hospitality. A 'welcome home' banquet hosted by The Son and The Father Themselves, giving us their hospitality in the true way it was designed Why? Simply because He loves us. He wants to show us our value and worth to Him on that day. Can you imagine it? We will actually be served by the King Himself - our Host! I don't know about you, but that simply blows my mind! <br />
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In the meantime, maybe we should be exercising and finding opportunities to grow in this wonderful expression of powerful communication. <br />
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In the next blog post, I'll give some ideas and examples of hospitality practiced within the Body of Christ, and with those who don't know Jesus yet just to spur you on "towards love and good deeds"!<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-13556113285020258732012-05-22T10:51:00.000-07:002012-05-22T17:16:04.675-07:00Missional vs TradtionalRecently, Tom and I were walking through a community that we had visited many times early in our marriage. We even lived in this community for a summer over 24 years ago. I had not been back since 1990, and Tom neither, but for a few days last January. I was surprised at those things which remained the same over the years, and yet seeing that these years had also brought about many changes. One of which was that there were no more outhouses behind each house! Plumbing and sewers had finally eliminated their necessity.<br />
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The wind was blowing the dust of the street into our faces and the clouds were threatening rain. It was cold for May, even this far north. We had the endless series of dogs guarding their section of the street, running up to our heels sniffing to determine if we were friend or foe, and also the occasional "Hey Tom" or "Katie!" from some window or doorway, causing us to wave back and take a few minutes for a visit as we'd make our way over to their home. We walked into many homes during our long weekend there.<br />
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Our purpose in our walk was not to check out the new changes, but <i>rather to make ourselves available to people and God for encounters </i>that would hopefully lead to prayer, encouragement, affirmation, healing, counsel, correction and sweet fellowship between old and new friends. We had wonderful visits! We saw the Spirit of God among us working to strengthen those who belong to Him, and gently "woo" those who had not yet joined the family of God. We saw Him heal wounds and encourage hearts. We saw Him draw people to Himself. We spent most of our days like this - <i>seeking out opportunities, listening and watching for what God wanted to do.</i><br />
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God is a seeking God - and is always at work (Jesus words), so those of us who follow Him must be doing the same. That is being missional. It's not anything else - and trendy as the word may be these days, it is simply getting OUT THERE and letting God use you to touch people with His Presence.<br />
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That's missional, simple and organic. <br />
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In the home we stayed in, there was another visitor. This man had also been invited up by our hosts as they were exploring
what simple, organic and missional life and fellowship looks like, and had invited us up to share on it. They
wanted this man's input about what we were sharing. He was familiar with the community, having come up previously a number of times to do the classic "outreach meetings". These are meetings with the usual mission protocol -i.e. billed with a speaker who is known for: healing, teaching, signs and wonders, deliverance, etc. etc. The message is "come and encounter Jesus at this meeting!" (Now, I'm not saying these mission venues are wrong or bad. I have done them, and will likely will do these style meetings again at some point if that is what God directs.) My point is not to trash these venues - but rather challenge the paradigm a bit. <br />
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The paradigm of sitting in one place waiting for people to come to you.<br />
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This man sat in the house for 5 days, with the exception of a of couple long fishing trips, mostly talking with the couple who were hosting, their kids, Tom and I, and a couple of people who came by one day for a barbecue. His paradigm was, "I'm here, come to me". Few did.<br />
In contrast, Tom and I had the paradigm of, "We're here, and we're coming to you!".<br />
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Traditional verses missional.<br />
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Now, please hear my heart. I'm not trying to trash this man, his ministry in serving God for many years, nor any fruit that may have come from it. But the contrast of his sitting in the house day after day <i>waiting for some opportunity to come to him</i>, and Tom and I walking out of the house many times during a given day <i>to go and SEEK those opportunities</i> is the point of this blog post today.<br />
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So much is being said about "missional" these days which is convoluting the real meaning. Let's get it straight - missional means "get out there!"<br />
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See what God is doing and <b>join Him in His mission</b> "to reach those who are lost", bringing the Presence of "Christ who lives in you to will and work according to His good pleasure", and to "strengthen those who are struggling".<br />
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That's simple, it's organic and completly missional. <br />
<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-9464187437077819752012-05-03T12:31:00.001-07:002012-05-03T12:31:28.882-07:00My Last Plug on Coaching<br />
Most people have heard of Michael Jordan. Even if they know nothing about the game of basketball, it is likely that they would know that he was one of the best players to ever play the sport. Was it just his natural ability that propelled him into this position? Did he innately have everything he needed to become one of the world's best athletes, or did he achieve his his potential partly because of something else?<br />
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Basketball experts have said that Michael Jordan, as naturally talented and gifted as he was, didn't reach his potential until he was coached by Phil Jackson.<br />
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What was it about coaching that did this? <br />
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<li>Coaching helps people focus on what they are uniquely designed to be. </li>
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<li>Coaches are helpful change experts who push you to think, act and become what God has already put within you. </li>
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<li>Coaching affirms our maturing and discovery process.</li>
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Can these things happen outside of an "official" coaching relationship? Absolutely, and it does every day! In bits and pieces throughout our lives, we hopefully have people and experiences that resemble the above list. This is not some new phenomena, or limited to those of us coaching as a profession and ministry. Some aspects of what I listed happen frequently in many different contexts of fellowship and our relationships.<br />
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The <i>difference</i> is that the coaching I'm talking about is <i>intentional and skilled</i>. <br />
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It doesn't just happen here and there, at random, or on occasion. It is the purpose of the relationship. Just like Michael Jordan and Phil Jackson - they were partners with a specific purpose, and that was to see just how good Michael could become at the game of basketball.<br />
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A good coach's gifts and abilities are both given AND honed. Coaching is a skill that is developed and improved with use and time. It's more than the gift of encouragement. In fact, I think many times that we need challenge more than encouragement. Change often doesn't feel so good, but necessary for growth. <br />
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My husband is my greatest encourager, who loves and supports me in multiple ways - but he is not so good at asking me questions that provoke my thinking. Although I'm sure there are things he would like to change about me or challenge me on - he really doesn't. He is awesome, and he is a wonderful encourager - but he is not a coach.<br />
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My friend and coach John White, is great at challenging my thinking and drawing things out of me with great questions - but I'm not always "feeling the love"of encouragment in our difficult conversations.<br />
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One is not a coach, but a great encourager. The other a great coach, but not always encouraging.<br />
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I need both.<br />
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I'm grateful for both of these men in my life, using their gifts, skills and abilities to help me grow and mature in Christ. Encourager and coach. If you'd like to try coaching with me, you can begin that journey here <a href="http://www.site.house2house.com/coaching-overview">http://www.site.house2house.com/coaching-overview</a>. After this post, I'm back to writing about all things simple, organic and missional, and maybe a few other interesting topics on this wonderful journey in Christ.<br />
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<b>"<i>Build up, build up, remove every obstacle out of the way of my people</i>,"</b> Isaiah 57:14<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-54228566115372378072012-03-26T18:28:00.001-07:002012-03-26T18:28:32.545-07:00"A Whole Lot of Shaking Going On"In 1957 a song came out by the artist Jerry Lee Lewis entitled, <i>A Whole Lotta Shakin Going On</i>, and although it's related to dancing, in many ways it was a prophetic song about an era that was just beginning in the United States. An era that would experience the shaking of the current status quo within the culture and society where civil rights, new freedoms and old paradigms were being confronted. <br />
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I think we are in a similar time in the Church right now where paradigms, structures, and value systems that have produced little or no fruit are being shaken and pruned. That means that we as individuals are being shaken and pruned also, since we make up the Church. This experience is not easy for anyone, and being shaken can be very disorienting and even frightening. However, we are told in the Scriptures that God will shake things that need to be shaken to accomplish His plans and purposes in us. In Hebrews 12:27 it says, referring to this shaking that God would, <i>"once more (do the) removing of those things which can be shaken, as of created things, so that those things which cannot be shaken may remain.</i>" We have certainly allowed many"created" things into our paradigms and practice of church, and this is being shaken. Of course this is uncomfortable, disorienting, and even frightening - but it is necessary if we are to have more of the Presence of Jesus in our lives and in our expression of fellowship and mission. Most of us have cried out in recent years; "we want MORE of you Lord!" because in our hearts we innately know there is more intimacy, power and fruitfulness than we have thus far experienced - but we have obstacles, hindrances and dead areas that keep this from happening. We need a shaking. A shaking that is achieving a purpose. A shaking that is from God.<br />
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The only way to MORE is through LESS. It is one of those spiritual dichotomies of a Kingdom not of this world.<br />
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The only way to less is through pruning and shaking. In John 15:2 Jesus speaks of this issue where he says, "Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away.
And every one that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bring forth
more fruit."<br />
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In gardening terms, the <i>suckers</i> are being removed. A sucker is the term given to a stem which arises from the underground
part of the plant, but is not part of the main plant. Or it can be stems which will never bear any fruit, but act as inhibitors to the the real stem of it getting all the nutrients it needs to bear MUCH fruit. This extra
stem may even be more vigorous and dominating over the true stem stealing the nutrients that gardeners want to be available for the main plant and stems. Suckers are therefore removed as soon as they are seen by gardeners.<br />
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In the journey of simple, organic and missional life and expression of fellowship in Christ, you can expect everything that can be shaken, <i><b>will</b></i> be shaken, if it has become an created encumbrance that keeps you from a deeper intimacy with God, richer fellowship in our relationship with others, and a natural expression of bringing the realities of Christ to those who don't know Jesus. <br />
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You can also expect to be pruned and have some of the suckers removed which have stolen from you the nutrients you need from God that will cause you to bear much fruit. The Bible tells us that it is <i>His will that we bear much fruit and prove to be His disciples.</i> John 15 :8<br />
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When I am coaching someone in simple, organic and missional life, we spend much of our time in understanding the dynamics of being shaken and pruned, and coaching can be a great asset for you in this time because it helps you identify what is going on, offers encouragement to submit to God in the process, and helps you to discover how this shaking and pruning achieves good fruit. <br />
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So as a coach in simple, organic and missional life and church, I'll use the words of Jerry Lee Lewis in his 1957 song......."shake baby shake"!!!!Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-16757786765656708512012-03-06T06:45:00.003-08:002012-03-06T06:45:45.321-08:00Coaching To Ignite Dreams and Passions<br />
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A few years ago I was working with refugee populations as a support person to help them learn the English language, find employment, navigate our system of banking, schools, insurance, and all the things we take for granted in our everyday lives. For those who are new to our country, these things are overwhelming and they need some help in figuring them out.<br />
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One of the families I worked and developed a close relationship with was from Uzbekistan, where they had lived under Soviet rule and communism for all of their lives. As Christians, they had encountered persecution and therefore they were granted refugee status to immigrate to the United States. I had been working with them for a few months and our English conversations had advanced to the level where we could begin to discuss their future aspirations and job possibilities. You know the type of conversation because we have it with children all the time.<br />
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It goes something like this; "<i>so, what do <b>you</b> want to be when you grow up?</i>"<br />
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Implicit in the question is the assumption that each person has a uniqueness about them and a special destiny, purpose, and passion that will be propelled by their own intrinsic motivation - as I wrote about in the previous blog post.<br />
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We get familiar and common responses from children when asked this question like, "a doctor", "a fireman", "a basketball player in the NBA", "a horse trainer" (okay, that's not usual, but that one was mine...).<br />
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So, here I am one evening with the Uzbek family all sitting around their dining room table, where I asked the question, "okay, now that you've acquired some English and can move forward, what do you want to do? Go to college? Work as a ........?"(as I listed off a few possibilities.) I expected to hear a few good possibilities that indicated their interests, passions and goals for the future.<br />
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The response I got back from the six of them was only a blank stare. A complete poker face.<br />
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Well, I did what anyone would do thinking they didn't understand my question, so I repeated myself a few times, rearranging the question thinking that would illicit a response. Very quickly it became apparent to me that they didn't have a clue how to answer my question. In that moment I had an epiphany and realized they didn't answer because they had lived in a communist system that assigned them jobs with no interest whatsoever in what they wanted. <br />
Why have dreams and passions if they could never be sought out and realized? In "the system" you did what they told you that you could, or couldn't do. The decision was made for them. Their uniqueness was of no consequence. They were there to serve the system.<br />
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In that moment of my realization, the Lord spoke to me and said, "they are like my people (the Body of Christ). They also don't know the dreams and passions within them anymore either, because they too have been in a system that didn't encourage having them, and they too have been told what they can and can't do."<br />
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This needs to change my friends. For us in the Body of Christ, we <b><i>each</i></b> need to be living and moving in our unique design that God has purposed in us. Everything in creation is about a unique and integrated contribution that ultimately points to the Creator, the Author, the Perfector. It is His Way. <br />
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In encouraging people over the years in the simple, organic and missional life and expression in Christ, this is a key element to be coached. As a parent, I have seen the unique make-up of each of my children, and it is one of the roles of a parent to encourage and strengthen the gifts, talents, abilities and passions of our children so they can walk in their unique and special design. This glorifies Christ. This also relates to the scripture verse in Ephesians 4 :16, "<i>from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by that which every joint supplies, according to the proper part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.</i>"<br />
And in 1 Corinthians 12, we see Paul make a number of points regarding the need and validity of "<i>each part</i>" of the Body having significant contributions to the whole Body. Even those parts we would deem "<i>unseemly</i>".<br />
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We need each person living in their strategic place, moving in their unique purpose in Christ for us to be a healthy and functioning Body.<br />
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This is not a time to sit
on the sidelines. <b><i>Get out there and play your part </i></b>in
the purposes of Christ for you to be His Witness, His Ambassador, and His
Bride. If you don't know what that is, check into receiving some coaching from someone who will help you unlock what God has put inside you.<br />
Coaching is a way to encourage the dreams and passions that have lain dormant or under the pile of years of abandonment and neglect. Coaching helps to ignite each person to take his part in the Body of Christ. <br />
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Ready, set, ignition!<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-71150800792116097252012-02-27T09:52:00.000-08:002012-02-27T09:52:15.392-08:00Coaching Intrinsic MotivationOne of the ways our family lives missionally, is by having students from other countries live with us while they attend college. They learn U.S. culture in our home which is a safe place where they can ask questions, make mistakes, practice their English, and see and experience how Christians live and relate to each other and the world around them. This has worked out great for all of us - until this semester. The two girls who came to live with us lasted just 6 weeks, and then they left because according them, "the environment was not good". They went back to their previous environment.<br />
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Many jump into the adventure of simple, organic and missional church and then end up leaving because the experience was not what they expected. They return to old environments that feel safe, require less, are more familiar, and fit their expectations. Not everyone likes to live in a simple, organic, and missional way once they find out what the environment requires of them. It requires personal responsibility for their own intimate relationship with God, and then with others both Christian and not. It requires initiative. It forces a deeper level of accountability, and a participatory expectation that many are surprised by, and don't have the motivation to pursue. <br />
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People are their own best motivators. <br />
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Psychologists have determined there are two different ways people are motivated; intrinsic and extrinsic.<br />
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Intrinsic motivation occurs when someone is driven by an interest or enjoyment of something that exists from <b><i>within</i></b> the person. For example, for someone who loves to read, reading many books in a given year is pleasurable, fulfilling and is not thought of as a chore, but rather enjoyable.<br />
<br />Extrinsic motivation occurs when someone or something from the <b><i>outside</i></b> of the person initiates and sustains the motivation. Some examples of this are grades, fulfilling the wishes of others, abiding by the law, working for tips as a waiter, etc.<br />
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As someone who has spent hours and hours coaching people in the simple, organic and missional journey, I can tell you that it is a waste of time, if they don't have intrinsic motivation. <br />
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Many people initially think they want this paradigm. Then, they begin to understand that the environment is different. Much like our past students who left our home because they determined that "the environment was not good." Many find the realities of living simple, organic and missional are different than what they expected. They lost, or never really had, the intrinsic motivation for this paradigm. <br />
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A benefit of good coaching is that it asks the right questions. It begins to unlock within you, just what is "the environment" your looking for, because that will be the only thing that will motivate you to find and live it. Good coaching taps into your intrinsic motivation and encourages what God is doing within you. <br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-28687255292041015042012-01-23T15:22:00.000-08:002012-01-23T16:01:17.239-08:00"Our chief want is someone who will inspire us to be what we know we can be." Ralph Waldo EmersonI am committed to the belief that God has unique and fulfilling plans for our lives that have been created to fit each of us perfectly. In Jeremiah 29:11 it says, <i>"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the
Lord, plans for welfare and not for calamity, to give you a future and a
hope.</i>"<br />
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It is a wonderful comfort knowing that the great designer and creator, has designed and created you and me, for a plan that He wants us to walk in. Not only that, but also the fact that He is actively involved, and enjoys the process!<br />
In Philippians 2:13 it says, <i>"For it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure." </i> The 'adventure of adventures' awaits those of us who say, "<i>Yes, Lord, Thy Will be done on earth as it is in heaven</i>", Matthew 6:10.<br />
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Yup, this is exciting and great, but it is not always easy. Sometimes we wish we had some help.<br />
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The reality of this adventure is like all journeys - it has both mountain tops and valleys. Mountain tops are great, and we'd love to stay there as long as possible. But, however much we wish it were different, it is in the valleys and deserts where we are taught the deep lessons, where our character is forged, and our faith is grown and refined. It is in these places where we are open to seeing and understanding things that the mountains keep from us. These are also the places where we find ourselves disoriented, stuck, discouraged, or simply unsure of the next step.<br />
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Then what do we do?<br />
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One thing I love and value is serving on the board for a ministry called House2House <a href="http://www.house2house.org/">www.house2house.org</a>. I just returned from our board meeting in Texas, excited about a new direction that the ministry is taking to strengthen those who are on the journey of simple, organic and missional church expressions. Up to this point, House2House has done a great job in resourcing those interested in this movement through videos, books, training manuals, a resource website, and yearly conferences that bring opportunities to hear some of the pioneers of the movement, and gain encouragement from the fellowship of others on a similar journey. However good and helpful all these things are, House2House desires to move along with God on its own journey in our particular role to support and encourage the simple, organic and missional movement<u><i> in a more relational manner.</i></u><br />
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The new focus and direction of House2House will still include some of the above resources,<b> <i>but will now also include coming alongside individuals, groups, churches, denominations and those who have already been participating in simple church (but who may need a boost), and do it through <u>relational coaching.</u></i></b><br />
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In the next few blog posts here at Backseat Driver, I will be writing about what coaching is, the value of it to those of you in simple, organic and missional church, and how to take advantage of this new resource at House2House.<br />
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We all want to be inspired to be all that we can be. To overcome the
obstacles that loom before us, and eagerly move forward in the unique and
wonderful plans that God has for us. Sometimes, all we need is someone to come alongside us, encouraging, challenging, and helping us discover what God has put inside us "for such a time as this". Coaching can be a significant part
of that process, and it may be something you would personally find beneficial, as you navigate through your own adventure. <br />
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Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "Don't go where the path may lead, go instead to where there is no path and leave a trail."<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-78648850302895279482011-12-29T16:12:00.000-08:002012-01-01T16:47:08.065-08:00Is God Organic, Jesus Simple, and the Holy Spirit Missional?Okay, I'm on a writing roll. I don't post a blog for months and now two in a week. What's up with that?<br />
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I write this blog mostly on aspects of what I and others call organic, simple, and missional church. After a few conversations this week regarding the validity and definition of the terms, I've gotten a bit frustrated with how people are separating them from each other. That somehow they exist apart from each other.<br />
Over the years, I've always made a point of joining them together, and now I'm even more committed to that practice. I'll use the example of the Trinity being One, but all separate parts with unique attributes and purposes.<br />
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For the purposes of this blog post, and not to form any kind of divergent theology, I'll make the point that <b>God really is organic, that Jesus made it all simple, and the Holy Spirit is profoundly missional. </b><br />
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I've written so much in the past on this blog, about how I define the word organic. But for those of you who may be new readers, or old readers who need a refresher, here it is again.<br />
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Basically, <b>organic</b> means to me; God initiated, God activated, God generated, God cultivated, God sustained. God is the essence of what <i>organic</i> is. It's Him. Only Him.<br />
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Not the flesh, not good programs or strategies, not someone's current best seller on the topic, not current marketing techniques, or the latest fad in church growth. It's not "honey I shrunk the church" into the same form of church as what meets in a building every week, only now shrunk down to fit into a home. What is organic may meet in a building, or anywhere else. <i>Where</i> people experience organic church is really not that important. <i>That people experience God in a living and present way, is what is important.</i><br />
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<i>God</i> and <span style="font-style: italic;">His initiatives,</span> <span style="font-style: italic;">His agenda, His interactions with us</span>. As Jesus prayed; "Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven." <b><i>His will, now, today, everyday. </i></b><br />
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"Doing church" in this way assumes a relationship that knows how to listen in intimacy and requires abiding in Him. It is a relationship of close affiliation and attention to that "still and small voice".<br />
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It acknowledges that anything apart from Him is worthless. <br />
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It assumes that God has a <span style="font-style: italic;">unique plan</span> for the day, and He wants to share that with us. <br />
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Jesus Himself, who sought the Father every day for the unique plans of the Father for that day, is our example in how to live <b>simple</b> church. <br />
Jesus says that, "he did only that which the Father is doing". He didn't make up his own strategies, or complicated the instructions from the Father.<br />
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<i>He just listened and obeyed. Simple</i>.<br />
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If Jesus felt it necessary to walk in this way, why would we think we can do it differently?<br />
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Although simple, it does require some things from us. Effort to seek Him, practice in listening to Him, patience to wait on Him, and the faith to believe in, and move with Him. No wonder that some people quickly take the easy way and pull away from this dependent relationship with God.<br />
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Scriptures say, "And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him. Hebrews 11:5-7.<br />
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Without this dependent intimacy, the flesh soon rises to substitute a replacement. Soon that substitute turns into a system, then rules, and finally a religion. And we all know that religion kills the Spirit. Same ole', same ole'.<br />
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At this point, some are satisfied to say, "that's good!" "Deep and abiding intimacy and fellowship, that's what it's all about!" Something like: "me and God, God and me, together the two of us, just like it should be!" La, la, la, la, ...........<br />
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To that I say, no, don't stop there! Your only 2/3 the way! This is not all about YOU!<br />
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<i><b>Jesus and God were not satisfied to keep their intimate fellowship and relationship to themselves - </b><b>t</b><b>hey desired to share it with others! </b>"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whoever believes on Him should not perish but have everlasting life". John 3:16</i> <br />
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When Jesus left, he gave us the Holy Spirit to be the outward expresser of the Father and Son to us. The Holy Spirit is the<b> missional </b>communicator of God and Jesus. The outward and manifested reality of the Father and Son to us, so we can know and experience them in a myriad of ways.<br />
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<b><i>The Holy Spirit has His mission - to reveal the Father and the Son and bring the reality of their existence to us.</i></b> Missional.<br />
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We are called to share this mission also. To give the good news of knowing Christ intimately through the gift of salvation with others.<br />
In all the relationships of our lives. To those who know Him, <b><i><u>and</u></i></b> those who don't. <i> </i><br />
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<i> "How will they know Him unless someone tells them, and how will someone tell them unless they are sent? Romans 10: 14-16.</i><br />
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That's organic, simple and missional church. Don't pull them apart.<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-24451627927181581302011-12-27T17:18:00.000-08:002011-12-27T19:59:22.608-08:00The Refrigerator Family AlbumWe hosted a Chinese student this fall in our home as she attended the University. When we were getting her packed up and making all the final arrangements for her to head back to China, she made the statement, "I want to be placed in your refrigerator." I blankly gazed at her, stretching out the moment as my brain worked fervently to decode the message. I have learned over the years through interaction with different cultures and languages, to use times like this as a fun puzzle game to figure out the meaning of words that may not initially make sense. This particular time it was taking me a bit longer to put the puzzle together, but finally I understood. "Oh, of course! We will place a picture of you on our refrigerator!" She smiled her big beautiful smile and said, "oh thank you, that will mean so much to me."<br /><br />Now this might sound really stupid to you, and you may be thinking; what's this got to do with anything?<br /><br />Our refrigerator, like many of yours, is full of pictures of our family and those we consider like family. It's like a giant photo album of those who are a part of our lives in deep and significant ways. Our Chinese student wanted to be considered a part of our special and extended family after she returned to China, and her picture on the refrigerator was a symbol of that and her continued connection to us.<br /><br />I don't think many of us realize how rich we are, who have Christ, to those who dwell in spiritual poverty. We don't pay attention to how our light illuminates the darkness that some live in daily. We take for granted that we are members of an eternal and incredible "family with benefits" that others only see, sense, and long for, from a distance.<br /><br />The scriptures say in Luke 11:33, "<span class="woj">“No one, after lighting a lamp, puts it away in a cellar nor under a basket, but on the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">lampstand</span>, so that those who enter may see the light."<br /><br /> A light is meant to illuminate and be seen. It draws people to it as it dissipates the dark. It is up to us to put ourselves onto <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">lampstands</span> that shine with accessibility to those in darkness, so that the light of Christ may draw those in darkness to it.<br /><br />This is not hard to do, because God has called us for this purpose - </span><span class="woj">He has put within us the light of Christ t</span><span class="woj">o be His representatives, His ambassadors, His living reality of the family of God in Christ Jesus. Our pictures have been placed upon the "refrigerator of heaven" acknowledging us as His own special family members.<br /><br />Are you placing yourself as a <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">lampstand</span> in places of darkness so that the light of Christ may shine forth? <br />A light, in a room full of lights, doesn't add that much. It was created to shine in dark places to be fully appreciated. <br />Find some dark places to shine out. </span>See what the Light in you will draw to Itself, and who will want to be placed on your refrigerator door!<br /><br />The people who walk in darkness Will see a great <b>light</b>; Those who live in a dark land, The <b>light</b> will shine on them.<br /><span class="keywordresultextras"><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah+9:1-3&version=NASB">Isaiah 9:1-3</a> </span>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-38165235761609233912011-05-25T08:37:00.000-07:002011-05-25T08:42:01.942-07:00Why Are We So Ineffective In Making Disciples?One of my classes at the University of Minnesota this spring was focused on adult education and particularly, how adults learn and retain that learning. <br />Let me share some basic points regarding adult education that many years of research have shown:<br /><br />1. Adults retain <span style="color: rgb(153, 0, 0);">90%</span> of what they learn <span style="font-style: italic;">if they teach it to someone else, and have immediate application of what they learn.</span><br /><br />2. Adults retain <span style="color: rgb(153, 0, 0);">75% </span>of what learn <span style="font-style: italic;">when they practice it</span>.<br /><br />3. Adults retain <span style="color: rgb(153, 0, 0);">50% </span>of what <span style="font-style: italic;">they discuss in a group.</span><br /><br />4. Adults retain <span style="color: rgb(153, 0, 0);">30% </span>of what <span style="font-style: italic;">they see demonstrated.</span><br /><br /><br />Look at those percentages and think about it in the context of how it relates to making disciples. Paul told Timothy to be effective in his ministry of making disciples and extending the Kingdom when he exhorted Timothy's efforts with; "so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work" 2 Tim. 3:17. <br />If we truly want to see a multiplication movement of the Kingdom of God, instead of the centralized "addition" model we have settled for, then we have to understand how this is best accomplished. This a accomplished when we use the most affective ways to teach, train and equip.<br /><br />Jesus obviously knew how to teach adults. Although we have him on a number of occasions standing publicly and teaching the masses, the majority of His training of the disciples took place in <span style="font-weight: bold;">demonstration,</span> (raising the dead, healing the sick, casting out demons), <span style="font-weight: bold;">discussion</span> ("Who do men say I am?, What do you think?"), <span style="font-weight: bold;">practice</span> (He sent them out two by two, "You do it"), and <span style="font-weight: bold;">go teach someone what you know</span> ("go and therefore make disciples... teaching them to observe all I have commanded you"). The gospels are full of examples of these top four ways that adults learn and retain what they learned. Go through the gospels yourself, and highlight all the ways you find these top four ways of learning.<br /><br />Now in contrast to these top four that we've covered, here are the ways that adults learn and retain the<span style="font-weight: bold;"> least</span>:<br /><br />1. Adults retain <span style="color: rgb(153, 0, 0);">20%</span> of what they see and hear in Audio-Visual teaching<br /><br />2. Adults retain <span style="color: rgb(153, 0, 0);">10%</span> of what we learn through reading<br /><br />3. Adults retain <span style="color: rgb(153, 0, 0);">5%</span> of what we learn through lecture<br /><br /><br />Wow! <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Doesn't</span> that resemble our dominant teaching/training practices of today? Almost all of what we do in 'making disciples' involves preaching and podium speaking at conferences, in churches every Sunday, and in the writing of books and blogs. Add some cool and entertaining video clips, and <span style="font-style: italic;">we have all the least effective ways to train up and equip a disciple for the work of the Kingdom! </span><br /><br /> Let's get real about all of this and start being more effective in producing disciples. I know I want to see a movement that is true multiplication and not stagnated or settling for a few additions.<br /><br /> We have settled for the pedagogical manner of downloading all the information we want people to know, and then think we have accomplished something powerful and impacting. Where is the impact?<br />It's pretty easy to give information download (I'm doing it right now and it's taking a couple hours of my day - not such a sacrifice). Taking this route to make disciples really has little impact, except to make names for ourselves (ouch!). Easy, noncommittal, pretty ineffective and totally Western in culture. It also is primarily done by only a small minority in the Body of Christ. Have we had enough of it yet?<br /><br />The good news I see in all this, is that <span style="font-style: italic;">we ALL can do the top four in the list of effective ways to learn and retain that learning. All of us! That is how God designed it to be. </span>We can ALL demonstrate, discuss, practice with others, and give away what we already know! We are all in unique places that we are called and equipped by God to do this in. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Each of us!</span><br /><br />We are not all called to be teachers, writers and bloggers that download information regularly and hopefully through the Holy Spirits anointing. That is a gift the Body needs and does grow from, but it is not the only, or even BEST way. <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">The BEST way is for us all to demonstrate, discuss, practice with others and give away what we know!</span> Even a new Christian has things to give away, and that is why we see so many new Christians bringing others to Christ during the first year or two of their conversion. Then what happens? They settle into passivity. They get taught to do so.<br /><br />Come on Church! Let's get activated! Go activate others to make disciples through demonstrating, discussing, practicing and applying all that we know and turn the world upside down! Jesus has equipped and called us and provided all that we need. He is enough!<br /><br /> "Go, therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you and lo, I AM with you always, even unto the end of the age". Matthew 28:19-20.Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6507800424207531930.post-73606198174168974452011-03-25T13:00:00.000-07:002011-03-25T13:14:08.979-07:00Do'in the Stuff<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">One of my favorite sayings is from a man named John Wimber, who began the Vineyard Church movement in the 1980's. He liked to say that; "we're</span></span><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> all</span></span></b></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> called to </span></span><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">do the stuff</span></span></b></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">". </span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> The </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">stuff,</span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> refers to the things that Jesus did like heal the sick, cast out demons, make disciples, multiply resources, raise the dead, hear clearly from the Father, calm the storms, bring the truth in word and action, all of which was ultimately bringing the Good News that it was the time of God's favor. Not only are we commissioned to do the stuff, but according to the Lord in John 14:12; </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I tell you the truth, anyone who has </span></span></span></i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; ">faith in me </span></span></span></i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">will do what</span></span></span></i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> have been doing. He will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. </span></span></span></i></div><div><div><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></i></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Greater things than Jesus? I've heard people teach that Jesus meant a collective <i>anyone</i> and <i>he, </i>and this passage refers to the whole Church rather than individuals. To me it is clear in the passage that Jesus is giving a statement about <i>each person</i> (anyone) having an opportunity to do even greater works cumulatively through their lifetime, (since Jesus really only ministered for about three years), and that they would be doing the very same kinds of things that He did.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I think many people skip this passage, or take the corporate interpretation of it because they can't imagine a life of experiences that would include doing the things Jesus did, let alone <i>greater</i> things throughout the course of their lifetime! </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: medium; "> But that's what Jesus said. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: medium; "> The issue is if you believe it. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: medium; "> If you do believe it, dose your life show it ?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> My friend Neil Cole likes to say there are two types of people; those who live incredible stories of their own, and those who just tell other peoples stories. Which one are you? </span></span></div><div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">We just had a weekend of "spurring one another on towards love and good deeds"(Hebrews 10:24), at the Organic Greenhouse training conference in downtown Minneapolis. There is incredible synergy that happens when God brings hungry people together, who want to get out into the world and actually bring the Kingdom of God to those who need it. People not motivated for any other reason than to share the love and goodness of God that they themselves have the joy to experience every day in knowing Christ.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I had the privilege of meeting and hanging out with such people this past weekend. Those who long to do what Jesus did and even greater! </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> A life like this requires faith, risk and boldly stepping out into the unknown -yet this is a life living and experiencing first hand their own great stories rather than telling the great stories of others. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">You just can't separate great works from great faith. And great lives have both.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> For so long multitudes in the Body of Christ have kept to themselves; praying,prophesying, teaching, helping, having a type of community that choses to be pretty oblivious to the world and opportunities around them. Living a life of some faith, but not great faith. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">This has resulted in a church of little impact and few stories of <i>greater</i> works! But that is not what God has designed for us. He has promised and "is able to do far more abundantly beyond that which we ask or think, according to the power that works within us." Ephesians 3:20. He desires to give us great lives with great stories of His Presence!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Jesus said; "</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">No one, after lighting a lamp, puts it away in a cellar nor under a basket, but on the lampstand, so that those who enter may see the light." Luke 11:33.</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> We've been keeping our lights to ourselves. We've been keeping Jesus to ourselves. We have settled for little faith and comfortable lives. We've not 'asked or imagined' beyond our day to day thoughts and personal comforts. But we still have opportunities for great faith and greater works for the King and Kingdom! Each day gives us those opportunities if we look for them! </span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Let's "do the stuff" and live great stories of great faith for a great King!</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 19, 32); line-height: 21px; font-family:Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:14px;"><br /></span></div></div></div></div></div></div>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13972050713200044461noreply@blogger.com2